I have asked admin to comment anyway as I am sure there will be more replies to my post soon once its not so ridiculously early in the morning

And I don't see the point in going round and round with people. Just thought I would try to explain a bit more of whats going on. And basically just put my take on it.
If the posts were deleted as soon as they were posted, then its probably as a mod was actually looking at that thread whilst they were posted, or went onto it as soon as you posted. One of the two.
But yeah, been nice to disagree, but civilly

And definitely could do with some zebras