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Originally Posted by Mystic Mock
You see I was having this debate earlier with one of my friends who basically believes that people shouldn't hold grudges over issues from ages ago, and I personally believe that if someone does something really disgraceful against you that you have every right to hold a grudge against the person for how long it takes for you to not be angry anymore.
Basically do you hold grudges or can you forgive even the most disgraceful mistreatment?
Poll will be coming shortly.
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...I think it’s just making a decision, Mock...do you want that person in your life now and to carry forward to the future or not...?...if you do then it’s to accept ‘despite of’ in everything they are, so holding grudges wouldn’t enable that....if it’s no, you don’t want them a part of your life, then grudge away..
...there is no ‘should’ or ‘shouldn’t’, it’s only the person to make decisions about their friendships etc...