[Ammi]

..just by making the vid and sending him the message...is she not still allowing him some ‘control’ in her life..and that’s sad to see...she took time to give the message, she gave that time to him on his birthday...he didn’t deserve her time or energy or anything, any part of her... he doesn’t deserve a message, surely...she should give him nothing, nothing of her, nothing of who she is...