[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...I did think some things with Brillo felt uncomfortable and quite ‘targeting’...but do people not see, it’s the same with Dezzy now, the very same thing with the vein the thread has taken...I thought a private tea room type chat with a few members and staff to be the thing...not this hostility and targeting which is effectively bully behaviour....

A privacy thing would have been better,but people decided to come into the thread and presume that the banned members were thowing tantrums because of bans etc,well that is not the case ,not for me anyway,but we are bound to retaliate when someone tells us what OUR problem is,lol, I have also felt deeply sorry for brillo at times,and I did liken it to bullying,I try very hard to ignore people I don't get on with but sometimes it's very hard to do,we are all human and not perfect but like I have said numerous times sometimes it's not what you say but how you say it.