I'd say to Faye that this is just causing too much trouble now for them to stay together, and with her entire family already pitted against him, then it really doesn't stand much of a chance of working out.

I'd also say that we'll re-visit outside after I've had a chance to speak to her parents to find out the reasons for the nomination, and what her exact feelings are, but as someone who values family, she needs to stick with Jem this week.

Take the high road, be the bigger person, and show up the petty Tamworth massive for what they are. I live on the Worcestershire/Birmingham border and people in Tamworth have family stumps rather than trees.