[Redway]

should pay the bill on a first date - the man or the woman?

[Lostie!]

Both should pay for themselves imo. Unless one of them arranged the date as a treat for the other person, in which case they'd probably pay.

I don't think it should ever be a gender thing, though. When I hear people debating how a guy should always pay etc, it makes me glad to be gay and avoiding double standards like that.

[Ninastar]

im a big believer in paying 50/50

i hate all this 'men should pay!!!!!!' bull****

[Drew.]

The men usually arrange it and drive, its only right she contributes.

[Locke.]

The women should pay the entire bill

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

im a big believer in paying 50/50

i hate all this 'men should pay!!!!!!' bull****

[2]

I actually think I have more respect for a full-fledged, overt sexist pig than I do for a chivalrous, 'women are fragile/need protecting' one... I don't see how it has to be the man who pays when these days women earn at least just as much as men

[Loukas]

Both should contribute, Men shouldn't do everything and neither should women.. They both ate therefore they both pay

Also a side note.. i'm also a believer that a woman should ask out a man if she wants to go on a date with him, thats not the 'man's job' either..

[Livia]

50/50. If I went to dinner with someone who insisted on paying, I'd insist on buying wine or something. I like to stand my round.

[LeatherTrumpet]

The man should pay

The woman should put out later

[LukeB]

50/50 tbh

[Mokka]

If you invite someone out on a date, you should do the paying.

If She asks Him out, She should pay,
If He asks Her out, He should pay.

It is implied in the invite, much like when you invite someone over for diner, you are not expecting them to stop by the store and buy the groceries and then cook it for you

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

im a big believer in paying 50/50

i hate all this 'men should pay!!!!!!' bull****

Do you fancy going for a meal Caitlin?

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

The man should pay

The woman should put out later

FFS If you're not one of the wittiest on here I will:

Swim the English Channel with Marsh on my back.
Plait sawdust.
Weave water
and
Climb up a torchbeam at night.

Absolutely insane but oh so fecking hilarious.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Livia

50/50. If I went to dinner with someone who insisted on paying, I'd insist on buying wine or something. I like to stand my round.

What if it was your Kirky boy and I was a bit borrasic lint?

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by ❄Loukas

Both should contribute, Men shouldn't do everything and neither should women.. They both ate therefore they both pay

Also a side note.. i'm also a believer that a woman should ask out a man if she wants to go on a date with him, thats not the 'man's job' either..

This.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

What if it was your Kirky boy and I was a bit borrasic lint?

Then, as Leather Trumpet suggests, I would expect you to put out later.

[LemonJam]

With my last girlfriend (lol) I'd always say "I'll pay" to be polite and all that **** and she'd never say a word about it. Got right on me tats.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Livia

Then, as Leather Trumpet suggests, I would expect you to put out later.

Are you kidding - I'd put out before, during and after.
In fact Liv - name the dinner date and we'll skip the dinner.

[Jay.]

Originally Posted by ❄Loukas

Both should contribute, Men shouldn't do everything and neither should women.. They both ate therefore they both pay

Also a side note.. i'm also a believer that a woman should ask out a man if she wants to go on a date with him, thats not the 'man's job' either..

^ this

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by LemonJam

With my last girlfriend (lol) I'd always say "I'll pay" to be polite and all that **** and she'd never say a word about it. Got right on me tats.

And how long did she last?

[Firewire]

Should be 50/50 or maybe one pays the first time and then the next time it should be the other

[Samm]

Isn't a problem for me

[LeatherTrumpet]

I recall taking a girl to to see if it had snowed on a small hill that was around 2000 feet (it had). The whole 4 hour walk was free and healthy but all she did was moan and I never saw her again

bloody gold digger ignoramus. How else can you gauge where snow lines are?

You cant at a fancy restaurant thats for sure

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

I recall taking a girl to to see if it had snowed on a small hill that was around 2000 feet (it had). The whole 4 hour walk was free and healthy but all she did was moan and I never saw her again

bloody gold digger ignoramus. How else can you gauge where snow lines are?
You cant at a fancy restaurant thats for sure

If you abandoned her on the 'hill-come mountain' in the snow, you met still see her again yeti.

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

If you abandoned her on the 'hill-come mountain' in the snow, you met still see her again yeti.

She wasnt even excited when we hit the snow line

smh