[Cordelia]

It seems to me that every one picks on Ben. For no specific reason. I feel sorry for him.. Any body else think that..

[Locke.]

It's ok, he can rub it in their faces when he wins.

[Josy]

Ben is cruel about everyone behind thier backs anyway, so it evens out..........

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by Josy

Ben is cruel about everyone behind thier backs anyway, so it evens out..........

I could think of many reasons to be cruel to the self-obsessed knob

[rusticgal]

Thats cos Ben doesnt care about anyone except himself....

[Cordelia]

Originally Posted by Locke.

It's ok, he can rub it in their faces when he wins.

I completely agree, he always looks so sad. Make me wanna cry

[fingers]

The most vain and selfish HM ever, even more selfish than Mohammed.

[-Sue-]

Originally Posted by fingers

The most vain and selfish HM ever, even more selfish than Mohammed.

oooh the plate smasher... I HATE HIM I HATE HIM (his words)

[arista]

Originally Posted by fingers

The most vain and selfish HM ever, even more selfish than Mohammed.

Are You Sure?

[Kazanne]

Yes,he's definately is their target as they know he is none confrontational and will always apologize even when he doesn't have to,he is such a lovely bloke,he's not perfect but he is so much better then the rest of the dross in there.I feel a lot of people even on the forum, like someone to have a pop at and Bens their boy.He is different and people dont like that.and more to the point he is honest which people really seem to think is a vice!!!

[fivecougz]

"For no specific reason" LOL

[Visage]

Originally Posted by kazanne

Yes,he's definately is their target as they know he is none confrontational

That's so true, he does all his bitching behind the other housemates backs.

Originally Posted by kazanne

I feel a lot of people even on the forum, like someone to have a pop at and Bens their boy.

That would be John James, not Ben

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Visage

That's so true, he does all his bitching behind the other housemates backs.





That would be John James, not Ben

If you insist on calling it bitching,they ALL do it behind each others backs,but you know that don't you?

[Visage]

Originally Posted by kazanne

If you insist on calling it bitching,they ALL do it behind each others backs,but you know that don't you?

You'll get no argument from me on that one.

You see, we can agree sometimes

[Zippy]

I love Ben as a HM. My 3rd fave. But he does bring a lot on himself at times with his selfish behaviour. And he's a shameless bitchy gossip!

And he does seem to escape noms a lot considering so....they cant hate him that much.

[fingers]

Originally Posted by Zippy

I love Ben as a HM. My 3rd fave. But he does bring a lot on himself at times with his selfish behaviour. And he's a shameless bitchy gossip!

And he does seem to escape noms a lot considering so....they cant hate him that much.

Yeah, they all "love him to bits" lol

[Zippy]

Originally Posted by fingers

Yeah, they all "love him to bits" lol

I think they actually do. He's a loveable prat really.

[boomoo]

Originally Posted by Zippy

I love Ben as a HM. My 3rd fave. But he does bring a lot on himself at times with his selfish behaviour. And he's a shameless bitchy gossip!

And he does seem to escape noms a lot considering so....they cant hate him that much.

He wont escape this week.

[-Sue-]

Ask yourself this .. if you were sad would Ben take time to feel sorry for you? (NO.. not unless you were rich)

I wouldnt feel sorry for him if my life depended on it.. he deserves a lot of what he gets in that house (after all he doesnt think before he speaks on many an occasion). He does nothing good for anyone in the house on a daily basis.. he is not entertaining to watch.. its just a daily grind/bore of who will Ben spend 6+ hours b*tching about today...

If you like the idea of having a best friend who will sweet talk you into doing everything for him then as soon as your back is turned will stab you in the back.. then people are welcome to him

but feel sorry for him...?? no chance

[Cordelia]

Originally Posted by FireTwilight

Ask yourself this .. if you were sad would Ben take time to feel sorry for you? (NO.. not unless you were rich)

I wouldnt feel sorry for him if my life depended on it.. he deserves a lot of what he gets in that house (after all he doesnt think before he speaks on many an occasion). He does nothing good for anyone in the house on a daily basis.. he is not entertaining to watch.. its just a daily grind/bore of who will Ben spend 6+ hours b*tching about today...

If you like the idea of having a best friend who will sweet talk you into doing everything for him then as soon as your back is turned will stab you in the back.. then people are welcome to him

but feel sorry for him...?? no chance

Its not the fact i agree with every single thing he does but he dosent deserves the abuse he gets. Just because he's posh people dislike him. he's a nice enough guy. Every bitches from time to time its a part of life.

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by Cordelia

Its not the fact i agree with every single thing he does but he dosent deserves the abuse he gets. Just because he's posh people dislike him. he's a nice enough guy. Every bitches from time to time its a part of life.

Watch LF - he whinges every waking hour - I suspect that's why he's so tired at nights

[-Sue-]

Originally Posted by Cordelia

Its not the fact i agree with every single thing he does but he dosent deserves the abuse he gets. Just because he's posh people dislike him. he's a nice enough guy. Every bitches from time to time its a part of life.

Its not just because he is posh its so much more than that the way he is with people manipulates (sweet talks) then back stabs.. his views his ideas.. so much about him I find replusive..I wouldnt consider him 'nice' I would consider him 'sly' and not someone I would trust but thats just me

JJ doesnt deserve it either (not that Im a major JJ1 fan) but he gets it in the neck and so does Josie..

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by FireTwilight

Ask yourself this .. if you were sad would Ben take time to feel sorry for you? (NO.. not unless you were rich)

I wouldnt feel sorry for him if my life depended on it.. he deserves a lot of what he gets in that house (after all he doesnt think before he speaks on many an occasion). He does nothing good for anyone in the house on a daily basis.. he is not entertaining to watch.. its just a daily grind/bore of who will Ben spend 6+ hours b*tching about today...

If you like the idea of having a best friend who will sweet talk you into doing everything for him then as soon as your back is turned will stab you in the back.. then people are welcome to him

but feel sorry for him...?? no chance

Good analysis Sue

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Cordelia

It seems to me that every one picks on Ben. For no specific reason. I feel sorry for him.. Any body else think that..

Some people love cruelty,look at the assholes who pay to watch bullfighting,look at all the bloodsports,Cruelty gives some people a kind of kick and they love to see someone or something hurt or be uncomfortable,you see it even on these forums,people 'hating' people they have never met.I think Ben is too good for the BB house,as they are not really used to people who have manners,respect and breeding.As soon as Ben gets out he will be fine ,I do think a certain few have spoiled his BB experiance simply by being so ignorant and closeminded to how he feels.

[Cordelia]

Originally Posted by kazanne

Some people love cruelty,look at the assholes who pay to watch bullfighting,look at all the bloodsports,Cruelty gives some people a kind of kick and they love to see someone or something hurt or be uncomfortable,you see it even on these forums,people 'hating' people they have never met.I think Ben is too good for the BB house,as they are not really used to people who have manners,respect and breeding.As soon as Ben gets out he will be fine ,I do think a certain few have spoiled his BB experiance simply by being so ignorant and closeminded to how he feels.

Well said!