[Strictly Jake]

Want people's opinions on this when I was growing up me and my friends, not a lot of us, just the few of us would always hang out we have been through so much together as you can imagine from being children up until being adults, we are all grown up now, I have since got married and had kids but stuck close to them constantly inviting them round to show them I can still be best mates with them(all girls by the way I haven't really had lad mates) but the past year or so my sister(6 yeas older than me also married with kids) has decided that she wants to be close friends with them so they always have her round and vice versa it happens all the time and me and my wife are never invited to their gatherings even though we feel bad if we don't invite any of them to ours. It happened again last night where my family was left out along with my other sister and family. I must point out these close friends I have are actually my cousins but I have always viewed them like sisters and they were my best mates too. When I see them they are friendly with us but I sense a lot of fakeness and they even slag off my sister all the time(the one that invites them round all the time)

Next week they are all going on a friends holiday together abroad and yet again have left us out

So what should I do?

Do I confront them about it

Do I avoid them

Am I overreacting?

Need advice as it's getting upsetting now as don't really have a lot of other friends as I say I have always been close to them until my sister decided to break us all