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Old 02-05-2009, 06:55 PM #1
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I came out a few years ago. I was just wandering- If you came out as gay or are on the verge of doing so- Did your parents react in a good way.

How did your friends react? Did it change the way people thought of you?

This topic is of no importance really- more of being a nosey bugger.
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I came out as bi recently - my friends didn't mind because a lot of my friends have already come out as bi/gay. To be honest we outnumber the straight people haha.

As for my family - my mum's the only one who knows at the moment. She just asked me and I said yeah, and again she doesn't really mind. I'm lucky I guess.
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I'm still in the closet to my family, but y'know I think they've probably guessed, I mean I went to see Hannah Montana The Movie today with a group of 5 girls LOL. Some of my friends know though
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My family & friends all know. My parents found out through Myspace when I they looked & it said "In A Relationship" & "Gay" so they gave me the huge talk (we'll always love you no matter what you are) and that's how they found out.

My friends knew when I started checking out guys with them ahaa, and then it flew around the whole school so really, everyone knows. Single at the moment though, flirted with someone called Misam yesterday though, I like him.
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I'm gay.
Obviously my bf knows, all my friends and my mum.
'twas difficult at the time but now looking back it wasn't bad at all.
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Well i never actually told my Mum i was bisexual looool. She was trying some clothes on and she needed a belt to go with it, i was like "Try this one, you'll look great" and then she went "God could you get any gayer!". I just looked at her and laughed. Then the next morning she just said "So you've been out with guys and girls...i think i know what i can expect from you". I just smiled and walked off...now she's awesome with it looool. Everytime i say "I'm seeing someone" she'll go "Boy or girl this time?" loool.
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Hehe, they might not think anything of it (Hannah Montana thing).
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came out as bi a year on the first june, mum hated it at start but when i was taken into hospital she kinda started to accept it
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jeeez so many bisexual people on the forum I diddn`t ever think about it really,us straights are the minority on tibb lol
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Well all my friends know I'm bi, including my gf, but my family don't know. I think my mum can tell though. She went through a phase last year where every night she asked me if I was gay. And on top of that, my cousin who I was close friends with told her mum I was bi, which of course reached my mum. I denied it all the way though, because I don't like my mum knowing anything about my life. lol. I'll tell her some day though, on her deathbed or something. That'll certainly finish her off.
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haha Hugo...

I'm not even gay.. what am I doing in this thread..

*hides in the corner with the other straighties* :P
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LOL I like that way of looking at it.
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