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Taking BB out of the equation for the moment, because it’s a fleeting experience, which of them is the real winner in life?

Let’s see now:

Sam is a very good looking young man. Tall, fit, sporty with a great body. Girls love him.

Dexter is a skinny little twerp; shifty looking with effeminate mannerisms. He has to pay women to have sex with him.

Sam is calm and collected, is forthright when it matters. He knows when to shut up and when to speak up – when morals are in question. He has all the makings of a fine ‘MAN’. He allegedly got barred from a bar once (horror of horrors) – that is his only misdemeanour that we know of. He does make sexual innuendos which may be due to sexual immaturity.

Dexter has an unfortunate persona in that he comes across as sly, shifty and full of BS. People instinctively don’t trust him. He has a shady past and talks about dubious sexual practices involving the humiliation of women (from his own mouth). There is no proof he has engaged in any of these practices personally.

Of the 2, Sam is already the real winner to me. He has so much going for him and Dexter very little. I’d give the BB win to Dexter. His hunger for the money has made him use every trick in the book to garner sympathy and he has conned many in the public. He must be exhausted. Give him the darn money and title and be done with it. He’ll need it to boost his morale and help him overcome his little man syndrome.

His casino hopes he’ll win too.

Which of the 2 is your real winner in life? And why?

(And I must point out that neither of them has been, or is, my favourite. Though I will always opt for the person I think is more honest and moralistic.)