[Razmataz]

I've been in a relationship now for 6 weeks, and it's amazing, but on nights out and days in, I've gained some popularness with another lass.

She keeps telling me I should be with her/ Cheat on my girlfriend as she will never know.

As a faithful partner I have not even considered it, but my question is.

Why is it when you become taken, other girls swarm around you wanting your attention?

[Sunny_01]

its half the fun of the chase Ryan my lovely! we girls like to prove that we can have what we want when we want it.

Dont tell me that if you cant have something you really, really want you dont go all out to get it no matter what it is!

I do have to say though your faithfullness is an admirable quality and I for one would have more respect for a guy that didnt cheat

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by Sunny_01
its half the fun of the chase Ryan my lovely! we girls like to prove that we can have what we want when we want it.

Dont tell me that if you cant have something you really, really want you dont go all out to get it no matter what it is!

I do have to say though your faithfullness is an admirable quality and I for one would have more respect for a guy that didnt cheat

My girlfriend lives in Mansfield, this girl lives a 3 minute walk away..

that's what annoys me about it.

[Bells]

It's just the thrill of the challenge to be honest. Also the fact that you're with another girl might make them think they're missing out, so again that adds to the challenge.

But if you did cheat and go to this other girl, chances are she won't be the same, because the thrill of the challenge has gone. Not to mention she probably won't have as much respect for you because she'll probably expect that you'll cheat on her with another girl and so on (once a cheater, always a cheater and all that). Then you'll be left with neither of the two girls. So it is good that you're faithful.

[lily.]

The grass is always greener Ryan. There's nothing wrong with a bit of flirting, and window-shopping. But, if your relationship with your girlfriend means anything to you then you wont go any further than that.

If you don't feel like your relationship with your girlfriend is what you want, then you should end it first, before you take up with the local lass.

However, I would give you one piece of advice. Don't break up with your girl because of the other girl. If you are breaking up, make sure it's because you want to. Breaking up for the sake of going elsewhere might prove to be something you would regret, because, as Ash said, she might lose interest if there's no "chase" and she might not be a great catch after all.

It's good to see you saying you wouldn't cheat though. I wouldn't either. I would end my current relationship if I had any intention of being with someone else.

[nodisharmony]

I am a "one-girl" guy and totally faithful..

I have had a couple of girls "that I can think of", that have shown interest in me, since I have been in my three year relationship with my girlfriend.

My girlfriend is quite pretty and very extrovert and full of personality and of course, "sexy", like Danielle Lloyd is

She gets hassled all the time and I am more than jealous, "let me tell you."

But, in answer to your question, I have to look at the opposite for a second. Here is a saying:-

(Nobody wants you, when your all alone)

But, when you are with someone and she is attractive and desirable, girls will look at you differently!! That's when you become HOT property and in total demand.

But, I believe that you should stick with what you have. If she loves you and understands you and has that staying power, which lots of girls don't have.

Like, for example:- meet a guy, go out for one night, pick out the faults and then dump him, just like that.

That is crazy!!!




nodisharmony

[Ella]

Ohhh thats a tricky one! The girl that is asking you to cheat sounds...No ofeense but she sounds horrible! No self respecting female would/should do that!

But she probably wants you because she knows she can't have you..Plus she may have liked you before but kept putting it off because you were single and she could wait to tell you..But she's probably telling you now before things get to serious between you and your current lass.

That's just my opinion anyway!

[Razmataz]

Well I understand I'm not going to get 'young' members enquiring here so I guess I can say this.

During this morning about 4am I received a very 'rude' text message from the lass and I was admittedly startled so I enquired, and she came out with all this stuff that really hit my 'sweet spot', I didn't reply to that message as I felt myself straying away further than I really should do.

I woke up this morning to another text saying other 'rude' stuff, which I really didn't appreciate...because one line said "I can give you what your girlfriend can't, anytime anyplace. Do you want it?"

I'm not replying, and I'm now in a pickle.

[Joe]

coming from a young'en (me only bein 19 ) personally I would decide who you like the most because at the end of the day one of them is gonna end up bein let down.

The grass isnt always greener on the other side and you could end up with this new lass and totally regret it. If you love the first one then it wont matter how far she lives, altho I know its nicer having someone who only lives down the road and its gotta be very tempting but just think very carefully before ya decide whats going on.

Whatever you do dont have both on the go at the same time or you'll end up losing both so take your time

Hope that helped!

[Sunny_01]

Dont be in a pickle Ryan, you didnt like what she said and that should speak volumes to you. Do you want to be with someone who openly pursues you while you are with another girl, knowing that she could do the same with another guy behind your back!! works both ways you know!

Living apart shouldnt be an issue if you really like your GF, just enjoy yourself. I remember when someone used to complain that he struggled to get a decent gf, look at him now!

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by Sunny_01
Dont be in a pickle Ryan, you didnt like what she said and that should speak volumes to you. Do you want to be with someone who openly pursues you while you are with another girl, knowing that she could do the same with another guy behind your back!! works both ways you know!

Living apart shouldnt be an issue if you really like your GF, just enjoy yourself. I remember when someone used to complain that he struggled to get a decent gf, look at him now!

me? Well I just text her back, and in lehmans terms I basically told her to 'P off with her advances as they wont work'.

[Sunny_01]

good for your Ryan, I am glad that you have been able to make a decision

Yup You lol

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by Sunny_01
good for your Ryan, I am glad that you have been able to make a decision

Yup You lol

Ahhhhh

My girlfriend just phoned me, made me smile....ahh moments like that ey.

I remember moaning to you, Jeeze.

[Sunny_01]

you were not moaning - just expressing yourself

[Ruth]

First of all, if the second girl is encouraging you to cheat on your girlfriend, she's not worth bothering with. Secondly, this second girl obviously can't be trusted, so you have no way of knowing that she would not spill the beans herself.

[GiRTh]

Get in there my son. Dip your wick.

Can I say that I'm appalled by some of the comments I've seen in here Sunny, Linda. I'm appaled.

Any way there is no harm in having a bit on the side while in your normal relationship. You say she's just down the road. Well, what are you waiting for. Get down there tonight. Step to it soldier.

It's a shame I've got a daughter cus I'd be a great father to a boy wouldn't I

[lily.]

And this is why you are single G. You pathetic excuse for a man..

Seriously Ryan, you done the right thing. Girl 2 is a slapper. Sending you txt's like that when she knows you are taken is against the "code".

You know it makes sense..

[Mrluvaluva]

Originally posted by GiRTh

It's a shame I've got a daughter cus I'd be a great father to a boy wouldn't I

I can't believe you said that. And no, you would not! And the answer is Ryan, they always want what they can't have.

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by L
And this is why you are single G. You pathetic excuse for a man..

Seriously Ryan, you done the right thing. Girl 2 is a slapper. Sending you txt's like that when she knows you are taken is against the "code".

You know it makes sense..

I decided to pay more attention to your comic strip.

but she got 'told' tonight...I went round and put my foot down...my girl would knock 10 'shi*s' out of her....so yeah..

[Sunny_01]

Originally posted by GiRTh
Can I say that I'm appalled by some of the comments I've seen in here Sunny, Linda. I'm appaled.

Sorry Sir - must try harder

[SiMoN!]

girls want what they cant have

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by SiMoN!
girls want what they cant have

Same applies for Boys.

[GiRTh]

What are all these women doing on this thread. Get off this is mans talk.

[lily.]

Don't you bring your chit talk in here G.... Amma walk all up n down your ass!

[GiRTh]

Get in there son.

Girl two may be a slapper but she'll do all sorts of nasty things to you. Let me tell you, you won't wnat to miss out on that. And the fact that she's just down the road. Fumble around there and see where it takes you. Step to it soldier. Dont let the side down.