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Old 17-01-2008, 09:27 AM #1
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Out of various forums I have been a part of, it seems to me the people who spend the most time making banners, avatars and other visual imagery in their profiles are often the same people who have no intelligent thought or opinion whatsoever when it comes to what matters the most: the content of their comments.

Perhaps they are trying to draw attention to what their member profile looks like, rather than draw attention to the written arguments they write.

When I read some of these threads, I am mostly confronted with visual imagery, yet the content of the posts is rather poor (on average, 3-12 words at most, with even the longer ones containing little substance at all).

Further, some people argue that age is a factor here, and that the youth simply do not understand the points presented.

However, everyone here must at least be 13, and many are in fact much older, i.e. in their late teens/early twenties, and by this age, it is not only abysmal that people don't understand the points presented, but their outright UNWILLINGNESS to do so is beyond ridiculous.

It is one thing to say ''I don't care/understand/wat u sayin m8?????'' etc etc, yet when the facts are laid out (in a very simple manner) there seems to be almost NO inclination to participate.

I have noted that there are only a handful of people here who actually listen and take into account whatever I have said, and it is these people (you know who you are) who seem to be on the right track.

I have noticed the only topics ''worthy'' of consideration are irrelevant subjects like Britney Spears or whether or not Anthony is ''fit'' etc, and even these are met with half-hearted attempts at debate. Why, even offerring a view (factual or otherwise) is often done poorly, and I am sad to say, the future of Western society looks especially bleak if the majority fail to see the bigger picture at hand.

I would say ''discuss'' right now at the end of this post, but there seems to be little point.

No matter, let's see if you can rise to the challenge...
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Old 17-01-2008, 09:56 AM #2
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Ron,

Everyone has their own reason for coming and posting on TiBB. The majority of people are here because TiBB is one of the largest online Big Brother communities and people like to come here and keep up with the latest news/views/gossip. Others are here because we offer other forums for other TV shows which don't exist with the userbase TiBB has. Some people are here because they enjoy being part of a community, and some people are here to make friends and meet people with similar interests.

It's hard enforcing rules that discriminate against certain members just because their post content is low. It wouldn't work in practice by demanding people post at least X words per post either. We don't allow text speech on the forum, which in a knock on effect maybe makes people think about what they are writing more -- and we also made post counts only work in Big Brother and General Chat sections of the board. (so you don't get any post count for posting in chat and games.)

Also a lot of our members are viewing TiBB from school/college, often during break or lunch time and quickly log on to see what's going on. Often it's just no feasible for them to start digesting long posts and creating big, thoughtful answers. It's probably just a case of having a few minutes spare and writing a quick reply with their opinion.

As the forum grows, the more subjects and sub forums we cater for, and even though this is primarily a Big Brother forum, I like to think we expand out pretty well into areas our users like talking about.

I'm sorry you feel this way... if you had higher expectations of what the discussions were like on this forum - but we are trying to cater to the masses. I'd welcome any suggestions you might have, but unfortunately as I said above there isn't going to be any restriction on what people can post in terms of length.

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Old 17-01-2008, 10:04 AM #3
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This is a forum concerning Big Brother - The reality TV show. It is the internet. People come here to interact and for different reasons. Some come to have fun. Some come into this virtual world as a release from their everyday lives. Some may want to debate on serious and important issues too. It's a place of many different personalities.

If members are making banners etc. What harm is it doing to anyone else? It doesn't make them unintelligent as you seem to imply.

With regards to the age factor, yes, this forum does have a lot of younger members. People may not understand your points, but in admitting this, they are maybe asking you to explain your point. That shows me their willingness to learn. If they couldn't be bothered then they simply would not reply to you.

If members want to discuss Britney Spears, or whoever, in their own way, then what is the problem? They aren't hurting anybody. You seem to have issues with members who don't measure up to your standards, and you actually do come accross quite aggressive.

If this forum is not up to your standards, and you are frustrated by the quality of posting on here, I can only see one option for you.

And no, I don't expect a favourable reply to my comments from you.
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good answer mark b ut i seen alot of people be rude to ron just because he wants to debate which seems siolly to me.
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good answer mark b ut i seen alot of people be rude to ron just because he wants to debate which seems siolly to me.
Being overtly aggressive and calling people idiots is not a way to debate when you don't agree with someone, or they don't understand where you are coming from. If that seems silly to you, well......
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Ron, not all of us are as intellectual as you are. Some threads require only a few words and not all of us come here to debate about serious topics. I come here to relax and have fun and just catch up with BB. I think it's kinda weird that you ask us to listen to your points, yet when we make a point based on our opinion, it is deemed wrong and your opinion is deemed better than ours.
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Funnily enough, 99.9% of my posts, which are backed-up and argued coherently, are something you remain curiously silent about.
And is this thread backed up by fact, or again, is it just your opinion? As I said, if you are dissatisfied with this forum, then I only see one option.
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good answer mark b ut i seen alot of people be rude to ron just because he wants to debate which seems siolly to me.
Being overtly aggressive and calling people idiots is not a way to debate when you don't agree with someone, or they don't understand where you are coming from. If that seems silly to you, well......
i seen people not evn try to understand ron arguments and just make fun of them or make fun of him for being interlectual, hats the bit that seems silly to me
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i seen people not evn try to understand ron arguments and just make fun of them or make fun of him for being interlectual, hats the bit that seems silly to me
Making fun of someones point or trying to make their post look stupid is silly. I agree.
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i seen people not evn try to understand ron arguments and just make fun of them or make fun of him for being interlectual, hats the bit that seems silly to me
Making fun of someones point or trying to make their post look stupid is silly. I agree.
well you seewm tpo do it to lots opf [people so youo cant agree that much ive seen yoou malke fun of people much more tghan try to get involve in debates
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n o point tryin g if you going to make fu n of me mark. you the owner so im not goin g to argue.
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well you seewm tpo do it to lots opf [people so youo cant agree that much ive seen yoou malke fun of people much more tghan try to get involve in debates
I have no idea what you are talking about? Where have I made fun of people? Example please.
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well you seewm tpo do it to lots opf [people so youo cant agree that much ive seen yoou malke fun of people much more tghan try to get involve in debates
I have no idea what you are talking about? Where have I made fun of people? Example please.
1 example - you have strtaed a thread in general chat called trolls which is a sneaky way of saying theres some internet trolls here on the forum, we all know that. you done this because over the past couple of days you tried to debate with a coup[le of people and they made you look very foolish and i even said to you in the middle of those topics 'please just leave it m,rluvaluva because this is getting very uncomfortable' and you carriewd on winding up your debating opponent because you had no way of competing with him in the debate. theres another thread called tits whioch is a way ofinsulting people you have fallen out with, that much is clear.

Apeart from that the majority of you answers seem to mock people in some way, you certanly done iot to me a few times and a couple of others. As i said yesterdsay i dont want to speak to you anym,ore because i think you try to wind people up on purpos and get a reaction from them just like you did with ron yesterday and just like you have done with the cowardly troll and tit topics. it seems top me you are the real internet troll.

im gpoing back to the big brother sectiopn now because this section is a big disapointment to me. se you later.
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1 example - you have strtaed a thread in general chat called trolls which is a sneaky way of saying theres some internet trolls here on the forum, we all know that. you done this because over the past couple of days you tried to debate with a coup[le of people and they made you look very foolish and i even said to you in the middle of those topics 'please just leave it m,rluvaluva because this is getting very uncomfortable' and you carriewd on winding up your debating opponent because you had no way of competing with him in the debate. theres another thread called tits whioch is a way ofinsulting people you have fallen out with, that much is clear.

Apeart from that the majority of you answers seem to mock people in some way, you certanly done iot to me a few times and a couple of others. As i said yesterdsay i dont want to speak to you anym,ore because i think you try to wind people up on purpos and get a reaction from them just like you did with ron yesterday and just like you have done with the cowardly troll and tit topics. it seems top me you are the real internet troll.

Im gpoing back to the big brother sectiopn now because this section is a big disapointment to me. se you later.
Firstly, if you do not wish to converse with me, then why do you keep replying to my posts? That does not make sense to me.

Secondly, the thread trolls is about dolls.

Thirdly, the thread about tits is about birds if you care to read my post. I am an ornithologist. As you don't know anything about me, how can you make that judgement?

I was made to look foolish in the debate was I? How so? It's not me is it who has spat my dummy out and deleted all my posts?

You see, I posted fun topics, that people can enjoy.

Dictatorship is a form of oppression you know?

Maybe you should stick to the BB section. Probably a wise move.
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i reply cause i dont want to be disrepectful to peolple.

i dont want to talk to you because i know you try to wind people up and get a reaction from them. you want to insult people for beating you in debates like ron did but know you have to get round the rules so you do it by started topics like trolls and tits andf then lie about it to wind people up by saying things like

'the thread trolls is about dolls.'
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'the thread about tits is about birds if you care to read my post. I am an ornithologist'

you are free to write whatever you want and be as nasty as you want in as sneaky way possible but am choosing to not respond to it in future. se you later.
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Oh but you keep coming back. And it is actually YOU who are the nasty one as you have just basically called me a liar. You do not know anything about me so I don't see how you have the ordacity to be so bold. I did not insult Ron and you have no evidence of that. All we have is your pathetic ramblings. I must congratulate you though as your grammar has got decidedly greater overnight. Well done.
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my grammar is ok but i like to type fast because i find it fun thats why i have typo alot of the timse.

you arnt being clever by saying 'Oh but you keep coming back', i havnt promised on my life that will stay away, i just say i intend to not speak wioth you in the future. thats another thing, you seem to enjoy drag conversations away from the topic and get invloved in silly handbag at 10 paces arguments. i find it very annoying and im surew others do whoevewr you do it too. i suppose that why you do it.

ok i tried to taslk things through but there njo getting through to you. se you later.

for at least the rest of today.
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thas enought u two.

just leave it. dnt tlk to each other again.

i have already spoken to molecular before bout his grammer
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I wasn't trying to be clever. Some people think they are, but they aren't really. Why am I dragging the conversation away from the topic? All my posts were to do with this topic until you popped in and posted "i seen people not evn try to understand ron arguments and just make fun of them or make fun of him for being interlectual, hats the bit that seems silly to me".

I replied with "Making fun of someones point or trying to make their post look stupid is silly. I agree."

Then you said "well you seewm tpo do it to lots opf [people so youo cant agree that much ive seen yoou malke fun of people much more tghan try to get involve in debates".

Seems like the pot is calling the kettle black.

You don't seem to be talking things through, but rather having a go at me for some reason. And to blatantly call me a liar, like you have done, is well out of order.
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thas enought u two.

just leave it. dont tlk to each other again.

i have already spoken to molecular before bout his grammer
I don't think so. If somebody wants to have a pop at me for no reason, and call me a liar, that is not on in my book.
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