[waterhog]

this was in the news a few days back - and i think the whole reason is because it is all at our fingertips - surely there must be a way to block this ? or is it something we have to learn to live with ?

PornWorld

i am not surprised,
this is not complex,
the only way of selling anything,
is pure sex.
from teeny poppers music,
even drinks have a link,
we live in a sexual society,
no time to blink.
it starts at school,
they have to be in fashion,
all the brand names,
from cool to hip to love and passion.
teenage years are impressionable,
its not helped by "Maddona" aka "Madge",
this old trollop in a bikini,
putting her legs behind her head showing her badge.
now the biggest factor,
which has made porn explode,
because everything is at your key,
Technology dose have no safe mode.
from phones to cameras,
sex, lady's, men, its all for let,
i do believe there is a solution,
someone take my poem and shut off the internet.

[Marsh.]

You know you love it...

The porn not the children.

[lostalex]

if i had a computer in my room when i was going thru puberty, i'd never leave my room, and i'd be watching nothing but porn.

also i think porn is more hardcore then it ever was before. most porn now is very abusive towards women.

when i was a kid i used to draw my own porn lol. literally drew pictures and jerked off to it.

if i ever have kids they won't get to see the internet til they are atleast 16.

i wouldn't want my children learning sexuality from porn on the internet. it's so abusive towards women. they will think that it's okay to be abusive in sex. and girls think that it's okay for a man to abuse you. I'll teach my daughters that sex is about YOU getting pleasure, not letting men do whatever they want, which is what porn teaches them. Porn is all about men's fantasies. where do they get to see women's fantasies??

I won't let my daughters anywhere near a computer.

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by lostalex

if i had a computer in my room when i was going thru puberty, i'd never leave my room, and i'd be watching nothing but porn.

also i think porn is more hardcore then it ever was before. most porn now is very abusive towards women.

when i was a kid i used to draw my own porn lol. literally drew pictures and jerked off to it.

if i ever have kids they won't get to see the internet til they are atleast 16.

i wouldn't want my children learning sexuality from porn on the internet. it's so abusive towards women. they will think that it's okay to be abusive in sex. and girls think that it's okay for a man to abuse you. I'll teach my daughters that sex is about YOU getting pleasure, not letting men do whatever they want, which is what porn teaches them. Porn is all about men's fantasies. where do they get to see women's fantasies??

I won't let my daughters anywhere near a computer.

That's quite some psychic ability you have there!

We all grew up interested in sex and giggling over the porno mags when someone got their hands on them but I do agree that it is far too explicit, far too hardcore and unfortunately because it is so easily accessible: it does give out the wrong image to 'many' - ie: the perfect body, the implants, that taping people having sex is fine - so many downsides to it.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

That's quite some psychic ability you have there!

We all grew up interested in sex and giggling over the porno mags when someone got their hands on them but I do agree that it is far too explicit, far too hardcore and unfortunately because it is so easily accessible: it does give out the wrong image to 'many' - ie: the perfect body, the implants, that taping people having sex is fine - so many downsides to it.

and porn is almost 100% from a man's point of view. There is no porn that represents healthy FEMALE sexuality. all of the porn is male made and male controlled and makes women just a sexual object.

where is the porn for women that shows a healthy expression of women enjoying sex? most porn now just makes women a sex toy for boys. I don't want my daughter to think that she is just a sex toy to make boys feel good.

She needs to know that sex is for HER to enjoy, and her enjoying it is more important than a horny BOY enjoying it. The vast majority of porn is about men USUING women like a sex doll. it has no respect for women at all. and it makes it look like the more aggressive then women should just TAKE it and enjoy it.

I'm not gonna let my daughter be exposed to that kind of propaganda.

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by lostalex

and porn is almost 100% from a man's point of view. There is no porn that represents healthy FEMALE sexuality. all of the porn is male made and male controlled and makes women just a sexual object.

where is the porn for women that shows a healthy expression of women enjoying sex? most porn now just makes women a sex toy for boys. I don't want my daughter to think that she is just a sex toy to make boys feel good.

She needs to know that sex is for HER to enjoy, and her enjoying it is more important than a horny BOY enjoying it. The vast majority of porn is about men USUING women like a sex doll. it has no respect for women at all. and it makes it look like the more aggressive then women should just TAKE it and enjoy it.

I'm not gonna let my daughter be exposed to that kind of propaganda.

You do realise that women enjoy sex too.

Many women enjoy porn and quite rightly too.

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

You do realise that women enjoy sex too.

Many women enjoy porn and quite rightly too.

Not with me, they don't.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

You do realise that women enjoy sex too.

Many women enjoy porn and quite rightly too.

yes, but the vast majority of women don't enjoy sex the 3ay it's portrayed in porn. porn makes it looks like rape most times.

that's why i pointed out that porn portrays a false view of sex, and it will make girls think that the sex portrayed in porn is normal, when in fact it's not normalk..

Most girls don't want aggressive sex that hurts. but if you only watch porn, you would think that all girls want to be raped.

wqhere is the porn that portrays what girls fantasize about?
'
do yu think girls fantasize about some fat gross old idiot raping them while they are babysitting the neighbors kids???

porn does not represent healthy sexuality, it represents nasty old pervert male fantasies.

I think it's perfectly natural that people are accessing porn from a younger age. I'd have been doing the same thing.

In Amsterdam, there are hardcore images in the windows of cinema's, and all over the place, but the Dutch haven't had issues with deviance among it's population, whilst we were being all prudish.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ

I think it's perfectly natural that people are accessing porn from a younger age. I'd have been doing the same thing.

In Amsterdam, there are hardcore images in the windows of cinema's, and all over the place, but the Dutch haven't had issues with deviance among it's population, whilst we were being all prudish.

but women are still unequal in dutch society, right??

and you don't think that treating women like sex toys has anything to do with that???

Originally Posted by lostalex

but women are still unequal in dutch society, right??

and you don't think that treating women like sex toys has anything to do with that???

Women are equal in Dutch society.

But if they weren't I don't believe that porn would be in any way responsible for that. I'd look at history, religion and superstition first.

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ

I think it's perfectly natural that people are accessing porn from a younger age. I'd have been doing the same thing.

In Amsterdam, there are hardcore images in the windows of cinema's, and all over the place, but the Dutch haven't had issues with deviance among it's population, whilst we were being all prudish.

Please don't speak for everyone, you aren't speaking for me - I'm no prude at all, I do have an opinion on this that doesn't match yours.

That doesn't make me prudish. It makes me consider all angles as far as my own moral compass dictates.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by lostalex

when i was a kid i used to draw my own porn lol. literally drew pictures and jerked off to it.

That's really creepy.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by 08marsh

That's really creepy.

well i used the sears catalogue underwear section sometimes too...is that less creepy?

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by lostalex

well i used the sears catalogue underwear section sometimes too...is that less creepy?

Yes.

I just had images of someone being aroused from naked anime characters.

[Scarlett.]

Why don't parents use their brain and put computers in the living room?

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by Chewy

Why don't parents use their brain and put computers in the living room?

Many do to be fair - but many are happy with the teens out of the way in their bedrooms - and lets be honest: the teens are happy with that too most of the time - they need their personal space. It's how to restrict it that's the problem.

[Jords]

I thought it was basic knowledge that porn is nothing like the norm.

[MTVN]

Deleted a couple of posts, keep it civil

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by MTVN

Deleted a couple of posts, keep it civil

Who is that directed to?

[Iceman]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

Who is that directed to?

Nobody, he just said keep it civil.

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by Iceman

Nobody, he just said keep it civil.

If it was directly at 'nobody' - then what was the point in making the comment.

[Iceman]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

If it was directly at 'nobody' - then what was the point in making the comment.

Well it wasnt aimed at anyone specific, more a general one but yeah its aimed at you and you only.

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by lostalex

ummm, sorry, do you need time to translate it? is english not your first language?

Originally Posted by lostalex

so you think women should behave like women in porn movies? I'm going to be teaching my daughters that they should do what feels good to them, not do the degrading shiut that porn stars do for CASH> if you think what is shown in porn is NORMAL then you have serious issues man. Porn is horribly degrading and abusive towards women.

Originally Posted by lostalex

we are talking about WHY children shouldn't be watching porn, obviously, are you too simple to actually think about the REASONS why children shouldn't see porn??

Originally Posted by MTVN

Deleted a couple of posts, keep it civil

any particular reason why these posts weren't also deleted?

[Jords]

Pyra youre being stupid here you know what he saying is right
Porn is definitely marketed more for the male viewer, and I cant believe thats actually being debated anybody would tell you that. Thats not to say women dont watch.

I dont think porn is bad, and I dont think it should have to resemble what the "norm" in sexual behavouir is. Much like films/tv shows theres a wide range of genre and its all exaggerated for visual pleasure. Porn is a product. The viewer finds what they like and gets cracking at self-pleasure. It brings fantasy/curiosity alive - again that does not mean things that happen in porn dont happen in real life, some of it does.

Media does a good coverage that what people see in porn is not the "norm" - moreso the appearances of the stars and that all partners should consent - but yes on topic children should be kept away until 13 because before then it is not in the interest that they need to know. Just that penis + vagina = baby at age 11, end of primary school time-ish. Althought saying this I remember finding out what a dildo was at 10 LOL. I dont think it really harms people but with porn they may well believe that everything they see is the the "norm" and it could shape their actions... Miss youve marked my work wrong, TIME FOR PUNISHMENT.