[the truth]

have to say one of the tops was when seeing a gothic type of girl off and on, whilst she was also seeing women too, we had a sort of unexplained openish relationship

except she wouldnt have seen it that way if shed figured i was with another girl too

so im happily leaving her play away with women, when im with a different lady one night, she grabs my mobile whilst im out the room, texts my current gf its over, next day the gf goes berserk why is it over, i dont know what the hell shes on about and i read my sent texts and there it is

so now i have to explain its a joke right? because telling her who really sent it is not the preferred option despite us having an open relationship

then she wanted me to explain whats so funny about pretending to finish with her?

meanwhile i knew around this time ,the current gf was also playing away with internet blokes too

and the moral of the tale is?

[lostalex]

The only real regret i've ever had in a relationship was this one guy i really liked, i HATED his roomate, and i made no secret about it, so i think the fact that i really hated his roomate and went out of my way to piss him off, just cause i really did hate him, well, obviously it messed up our relationship a bit, obviously he still had to live with the guy, so...

I should have been more mature in the situation, and had more respect for the people he had to live with lol. His roomate was a serious dick though.

[the truth]

wow this is turning into true confessions
bravo for fessing up to your mistakes , we could all learn some humility

have u considered telling your ex about this? who knows maybe u could start again