[rusticgal]

Sarah made a point that I agreed with....after last nights disposal of the vile Aaronn...dressing up in Eileen's clothes and parading himself like a 'Queen' seemed to be distasteful after what had happened.... I know he didn't do anything wrong but it wasn't the right thing to do in the aftermath of Aaron's behaviour towards him.

Thoughts???

[Northern Monkey]

Why was'nt it the right thing to do?Why should he change just because some perv got naked and harrassed him?

[Cherie]

Completely inappropriate, so much for being gutted about Aaron, he is very sly and he did smirk when it was announced that Aaron had left

[Withano]

Wait, what?!

Joel isn't allowed to wear girls clothes because Aaron was ejected? Did I understand your post right? What?

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Withano

Wait, what?!

Joel isn't allowed to wear girls clothes because Aaron was ejected? Did I understand your post right? What?

Airtime, no one in the bedroom looked impressed

[Withano]

Wait, what?!

Joel isn't allowed to wear girls clothes because Aaron was ejected? Did I understand your post right? What?

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Withano

Wait, what?!

Joel isn't allowed to wear girls clothes because Aaron was ejected? Did I understand your post right? What?

Don't put words in my mouth...

Joel quite rightly felt uncomfortable with Aaron's behaviour...you could see the faces of the other housemates that they felt uncomfortable with his. It just seemed a bit of a silly thing to do in light of what had happened just 24 hours before.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

Don't put words in my mouth...

Joel quite rightly felt uncomfortable with Aaron's behaviour...you could see the faces of the other housemates that they felt uncomfortable with his. It just seemed a bit of a silly thing to do in light of what had happened just 24 hours before.

If people are uncomfortable with crossdressing (is that the point that either you or sarah were trying to make?) then thats their insecurity and not Joels problem.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Withano

If people are uncomfortable with crossdressing (is that the point that either you or sarah were trying to make?) then thats their insecurity and not Joels problem.

I don't think that is the point at all, it just showed a lack of empathy for the HMs who were still coming to terms with Aarons removal. Aaron and Sarah were very close and Sarah considered him her best friend in there, the highlights didn't show this at all as they are so busy pushing a showmance, maybe they were trying to lift the house but the timing was all wrong

[GypsyGoth]

He was trying to get Eileen to take her clothes off so he could get her thrown out.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by GypsyGoth

He was trying to get Eileen to take her clothes off so he could get her thrown out.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by GypsyGoth

He was trying to get Eileen to take her clothes off so he could get her thrown out.

[T*]

Originally Posted by GypsyGoth

He was trying to get Eileen to take her clothes off so he could get her thrown out.

[jaxie]

I don't think Joel dressing up and fooling around with Eileen has any bearing on what Aaron did. Please note, what Aaron did.

[Absorption]

I don't particularly like Joel but Sarah's comments verged on the 'asking for it' argument.

Also, most of the HMs seemed to say after Aaron's departure had been announced by BB that they should all act normally and not make a big deal out of it. Therefore, Joel was right to continue to act like the attention-seeking tit he has been a lot of the time.

[Josy]

I completely disagree, Joel has been dressing up in women's clothes before any of the incident with Aaron, and he certainly isnt the first BB housemate to do that.

Also not sure why all these comments are popping up about it saying he was acting like a queen tbh

[ThriceShy]

Originally Posted by Josy

I completely disagree, Joel has been dressing up in women's clothes before any of the incident with Aaron, and he certainly isnt the first BB housemate to do that.

Also not sure why all these comments are popping up about it saying he was acting like a queen tbh

Dressing up in women's clothes you say. Gee, I wonder why aaron might have thought he would be up for a drunken laugh and not go up to the diary room and pretend he had been victimised.

[Absorption]

Originally Posted by ThriceShy

Dressing up in women's clothes you say. Gee, I wonder why aaron might have thought he would be up for a drunken laugh and not go up to the diary room and pretend he had been victimised.

It was BB's judgement of what Aaron did which decided his fate (and his own actions), not what Joel said.

[ThriceShy]

Originally Posted by Absorption

It was BB's judgement of what Aaron did which decided his fate (and his own actions), not what Joel said.

I disagree. I think Joel's poor me act in the diary room is exactly what got aaron evicted. That is why they edited it into that particular sequence.

It was a narrative....aaron does it....gets called to diary room....gets sent to bed....joel goes in....aaron gets evicted.

It couldn't have been clearer.

[Visage]

Originally Posted by ThriceShy

I disagree. I think Joel's poor me act in the diary room is exactly what got aaron evicted. That is why they edited it into that particular sequence.

It was a narrative....aaron does it....gets called to diary room....gets sent to bed....joel goes in....aaron gets evicted.

It couldn't have been clearer.

That might be the sequence of events as they happened last night.

But I would say they told Aaron to go straight to bed with the intention of discussing the incident. Maybe there wasn't enough people in a position to make that kind of decision at 2:30 in the morning?

If they had evicted Aaron straight away (before talking to Joel) that might have been seen like they didn't look at the bigger picture and deemed unfair, at least the way they did this, the time they took to make that decision looks like they took all they could into consideration.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Absorption

It was BB's judgement of what Aaron did which decided his fate (and his own actions), not what Joel said.

I think if Joel had said he wasn't uncomfortable with it, Aaron may have just got a warning. I might be wrong but that's what I think.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by ThriceShy

Dressing up in women's clothes you say. Gee, I wonder why aaron might have thought he would be up for a drunken laugh and not go up to the diary room and pretend he had been victimised.

Lots of the males in BB have dressed up in women's clothes, they don't all ask to be sexually assaulted after it.

Not even replying to the victim blaming. Hey maybe Joels skirt was too short eh.

[ThriceShy]

Originally Posted by Josy

Lots of the males in BB have dressed up in women's clothes, they don't all ask to be sexually assaulted after it.

Not even replying to the victim blaming. Hey maybe Joels skirt was too short eh.

Nobody has been sexually assaulted. To say otherwise is libelous toward aaron.

[Absorption]

Originally Posted by Josy

Lots of the males in BB have dressed up in women's clothes, they don't all ask to be sexually assaulted after it.

Not even replying to the victim blaming. Hey maybe Joels skirt was too short eh.

A voice not from the dark ages...thank you.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by ThriceShy

Dressing up in women's clothes you say. Gee, I wonder why aaron might have thought he would be up for a drunken laugh and not go up to the diary room and pretend he had been victimised.

Whether Joel is gay or straight, likes to mess around in women's clothes or not does not justify Aaron harassing him with no clothes on.

Parading around in daft clothes =/= rubbing your genitals on another person.