[kirklancaster]

Bear is NOT funny at all - He is a BULLYING YOB. It does not matter what 'funny voice' he affects - He is a BULLYING YOB, plain and simple.

If I want to watch ignorant, uncouth, bullies such as Bear and Bloor, I do NOT need to turn on my TV set, I can go into the City centre on any weekend at night or on any Bank Holiday during the daytime.

I am getting old, and have had just 5 fights in the past 4 years or so, and EVERY single time, it was not only with a Stephen Bear or Lewis Bloor, but also NOT at my instigation.

I was standing in quite a long cinema queue with my wife and two young nephews of 10 and 12 years old, and had been queuing for about 15 minutes, when Bear, Bloor and two other clones walked STRAIGHT to the front of the queue and pushed in.

The queue was a mixed one, with parents with young children, older people, and young couples, and one slightly built dad with a young girl of about 8 years old - who was at the front of the queue and had been directly jostled by Bear and Bloor and co - tried to protest, but got a load of abuse back from them for his troubles, and understandably, clammed up.

That was just before I shouted to them to get to the back of the queue.

I will not go into details, but they DID eventually go to the BACK of the queue.

I was in a busy town centre pub, again with my wife, and was waiting to be served at a bar. There were 3 other people - a young couple, and a young girl, who were waiting to be served at the bar before me, as well as others being served.

The barman serving customers at 'our' section of the bar was Stephen Bear.

Along with the three others who were waiting, I waited for over 10 minutes as gangs of other Stephen Bears kept pushing into the growing numbers of people joining the 'queue of customers wanting to be served, and WITHOUT FAIL, 'Bear the Barman' - who so obviously KNEW them, served them and ignored both my call and that of the three who were before me. The cheeky twat even looked at us as we tried to tell him that we were next then ignored us anyway.

After no joy trying to attract the attention of the other nearest barman - who DID seem to be serving customers in his section in order - I tried Bear again, but no joy, as he just looked, seemed to become annoyed and snapped at me to "wait", then continued laughing and chatting to his 'mates' as he served them.

This ended up with my grabbing him, dragging him half across the bar and telling him in my best 'French' what fate awaited him if he did not start serving quiet customers in the order of waiting time.

When I let him go, he summoned the bouncers, but was out of luck as the two that came knew me, and knew that I did not cause trouble, so after listening to what happened, they told him that he better start serving according to waiting time then left.

Bear came to me - all nice and sheepish now - apologised and asked me what drinks I wanted. He seemed genuinely shocked when I pointed to the young couple and the other girl - who were STILL waiting - and I said; "Those two first, then that girl, THEN me".

Stephen Bear is NOT entertaining in the slightest. He is nothing more than an egotistical, ignorant, selfish, BULLY - one of a rapidly growing number of Stephen Bears who are infesting society, and ruining the quality of life of other people by IMPOSING his WILL upon them without any regard for them, or their rights, or their wishes.

THEY are the ones who feel it is BENEATH them to queue with we ORDINARY citizens - whether it be outside a cinema, at a bar waiting to be served, or even at a shop cash out - THEY are the ones who, in NUMBERS -- NEVER alone -- walk straight to the front of the queue and push in.

THEY are the ones, who walk THROUGH people BARGING them aside, in crowded pubs, clubs, shops, or on city sidewalks. NOT for them, the careful negotiating AROUND elderly people, parents with young children, or even mere slow walkers, as we ORDINARY citizens do.

And we do NOT even have to SEE these ignorant twats to suffer from their crass bullying behaviour.

I HEAR them every week whether it is while I am sitting peacefully in my garden on a warm sunny Sunday afternoon or in my room late at night quietly reading, or listening to music, or watching TV.

THEY are the ones who spend long periods, REVVING UP their stationary 'souped up' motorcycles, and cars which have had the bafflers removed so that the sound is even more invasive and deafening.

THEY are the ones who let off FIREWORKS from 9pm to well into the early hours EVERY single weekend all year round now, with NO REGARD for other people, their sleeping babies and young children, or their terrified pet dogs.

THEY are the ones who SCREAM and SHOUT at the top of their drunken voices at 3 and 4am in the morning as they walk home through sleeping Housing Estates, with NO regard for other people.

THEY are also the ones who throw their empty beer bottles, cans and take-way wrappers over other people's garden fences, and the ones who piss up against the gable walls of other people's houses on their way home from the nightclubs and pubs.

Some of you on here, may try to tell me that you find Bear and Bloor's behaviour 'funny', and if that is what 'floats your boat', fair enough - it is a free country - but do NOT try to convince me that they are NOT bullies, because I have WITNESSED how these two ignorant twats, AND their vacuous molls, Marnie and Chloe, are imposing their antisocial, guttersnipe and aggressive behaviour upon the quieter, more decent and thoughtful members of the house, and I RECOGNISE how that is impairing the quality of their time in the house, stifling their rights to enjoy themselves, and intimidating them, and I CALL that BULLYING.
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[sampvt]

In my day these were the yobs we clipped round the ear and sent them home to their dads that they were scared of. No longer, its a different world now, no respect anymore. Bring back conscription to juvy offenders.

[Withano]

I hate how people think that bullying is exclusive to children. Of course adults can bully others. Bear is bullying.

The thread will inevitably become full of "ergh not the B word again" and to those people, look up a definition of bullying first.

[Cherie]

Lewis is worse for me

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Lewis is worse for me

yes

but both are cowardly bullies

[rusticgal]

He is a bully. He intimidates with the intention of controlling people. This is why he could not deal with the nominations for him and threw his toys out of the Pram...because he didn't have the control he thought he had. He then went on to threaten them with worse behaviour. He now doesn't like the fact that the housemates are ignoring him...because he has no control. It's going to wind him up if they keep it up...

It's the only way to deal with bullies like Bear....don't bite and give them what they want...just IGNORE the dickhead and watch him bite.

[ScottyT]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

He is a bully. He intimidates with the intention of controlling people. This is why he could not deal with the nominations for him and threw his toys out of the Pram...because he didn't have the control he thought he had. He then went on to threaten them with worse behaviour. He now doesn't like the fact that the housemates are ignoring him...because he has no control. It's going to wind him up if they keep it up...

It's the only way to deal with bullies like Bear....don't bite and give them what they want...just IGNORE the dickhead and watch him bite.

Spot on. Bear thrives off attention. If he doesn't get it, he'll become uncomfortable fast because he has nothing else to offer but childish antics and he knows it!

[ThriceShy]

Originally Posted by Withano

I hate how people think that bullying is exclusive to children. Of course adults can bully others. Bear is bullying.

The thread will inevitably become full of "ergh not the B word again" and to those people, look up a definition of bullying first.

Bear is the one being bullied. His food and drink were spat in and several people knew about it and laughed about it and let him eat and drink it.

Classic group bullying.

[BB247]

Originally Posted by Withano

I hate how people think that bullying is exclusive to children. Of course adults can bully others. Bear is bullying.

The thread will inevitably become full of "ergh not the B word again" and to those people, look up a definition of bullying first.

And Renee is about to bully Chloe viciously

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by BB247

And Renee is about to bully Chloe viciously

[jennyjuniper]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

Bear is NOT funny at all - He is a BULLYING YOB. It does not matter what 'funny voice' he affects - He is a BULLYING YOB, plain and simple.

If I want to watch ignorant, uncouth, bullies such as Bear and Bloor, I do NOT need to turn on my TV set, I can go into the City centre on any weekend at night or on any Bank Holiday during the daytime.

I am getting old, and have had just 5 fights in the past 4 years or so, and EVERY single time, it was not only with a Stephen Bear or Lewis Bloor, but also NOT at my instigation.

I was standing in quite a long cinema queue with my wife and two young nephews of 10 and 12 years old, and had been queuing for about 15 minutes, when Bear, Bloor and two other clones walked STRAIGHT to the front of the queue and pushed in.

The queue was a mixed one, with parents with young children, older people, and young couples, and one slightly built dad with a young girl of about 8 years old - who was at the front of the queue and had been directly jostled by Bear and Bloor and co - tried to protest, but got a load of abuse back from them for his troubles, and understandably, clammed up.

That was just before I shouted to them to get to the back of the queue.

I will not go into details, but they DID eventually go to the BACK of the queue.

I was in a busy town centre pub, again with my wife, and was waiting to be served at a bar. There were 3 other people - a young couple, and a young girl, who were waiting to be served at the bar before me, as well as others being served.

The barman serving customers at 'our' section of the bar was Stephen Bear.

Along with the three others who were waiting, I waited for over 10 minutes as gangs of other Stephen Bears kept pushing into the growing numbers of people joining the 'queue of customers wanting to be served, and WITHOUT FAIL, 'Bear the Barman' - who so obviously KNEW them, served them and ignored both my call and that of the three who were before me. The cheeky twat even looked at us as we tried to tell him that we were next then ignored us anyway.

After no joy trying to attract the attention of the other nearest barman - who DID seem to be serving customers in his section in order - I tried Bear again, but no joy, as he just looked, seemed to become annoyed and snapped at me to "wait", then continued laughing and chatting to his 'mates' as he served them.

This ended up with my grabbing him, dragging him half across the bar and telling him in my best 'French' what fate awaited him if he did not start serving quiet customers in the order of waiting time.

When I let him go, he summoned the bouncers, but was out of luck as the two that came knew me, and knew that I did not cause trouble, so after listening to what happened, they told him that he better start serving according to waiting time then left.

Bear came to me - all nice and sheepish now - apologised and asked me what drinks I wanted. He seemed genuinely shocked when I pointed to the young couple and the other girl - who were STILL waiting - and I said; "Those two first, then that girl, THEN me".

Stephen Bear is NOT entertaining in the slightest. He is nothing more than an egotistical, ignorant, selfish, BULLY - one of a rapidly growing number of Stephen Bears who are infesting society, and ruining the quality of life of other people by IMPOSING his WILL upon them without any regard for them, or their rights, or their wishes.

THEY are the ones who feel it is BENEATH them to queue with we ORDINARY citizens - whether it be outside a cinema, at a bar waiting to be served, or even at a shop cash out - THEY are the ones who, in NUMBERS -- NEVER alone -- walk straight to the front of the queue and push in.

THEY are the ones, who walk THROUGH people BARGING them aside, in crowded pubs, clubs, shops, or on city sidewalks. NOT for them, the careful negotiating AROUND elderly people, parents with young children, or even mere slow walkers, as we ORDINARY citizens do.

And we do NOT even have to SEE these ignorant twats to suffer from their crass bullying behaviour.

I HEAR them every week whether it is while I am sitting peacefully in my garden on a warm sunny Sunday afternoon or in my room late at night quietly reading, or listening to music, or watching TV.

THEY are the ones who spend long periods, REVVING UP their stationary 'souped up' motorcycles, and cars which have had the bafflers removed so that the sound is even more invasive and deafening.

THEY are the ones who let off FIREWORKS from 9pm to well into the early hours EVERY single weekend all year round now, with NO REGARD for other people, their sleeping babies and young children, or their terrified pet dogs.

THEY are the ones who SCREAM and SHOUT at the top of their drunken voices at 3 and 4am in the morning as they walk home through sleeping Housing Estates, with NO regard for other people.

THEY are also the ones who throw their empty beer bottles, cans and take-way wrappers over other people's garden fences, and the ones who piss up against the gable walls of other people's houses on their way home from the nightclubs and pubs.

Some of you on here, may try to tell me that you find Bear and Bloor's behaviour 'funny', and if that is what 'floats your boat', fair enough - it is a free country - but do NOT try to convince me that they are NOT bullies, because I have WITNESSED how these two ignorant twats, AND their vacuous molls, Marnie and Chloe, are imposing their antisocial, guttersnipe and aggressive behaviour upon the quieter, more decent and thoughtful members of the house, and I RECOGNISE how that is impairing the quality of their time in the house, stifling their rights to enjoy themselves, and intimidating them, and I CALL that BULLYING.
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Very well said Kirk. I only wish I'd been in the queue with you when bear the barman got his comeuppance.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by jennyjuniper

Very well said Kirk. I only wish I'd been in the queue with you when bear the barman got his comeuppance.

Thank you Jenny. I nearly got arrested for fighting outside the cinema - well, we walked around the corner to a backstreet (while my wife saved my place in the queue ) but the cops found out what had transpired and let me off. I think I surprised the yob that an 'old man' could whup his ass. They DID go to the back of the queue though.

Getting old is a bitch isn't it Jenny?

[jennyjuniper]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

Thank you Jenny. I nearly got arrested for fighting outside the cinema - well, we walked around the corner to a backstreet (while my wife saved my place in the queue ) but the cops found out what had transpired and let me off. I think I surprised the yob that an 'old man' could whup his ass. They DID go to the back of the queue though.

Getting old is a bitch isn't it Jenny?

Not while we can still kick ass Kirk.

[ScottyT]

The irony is they think their behaviour is 'socially acceptable' and 'normal' - yes, maybe on the beaches of Marbella, in Ibiza and Magaluf with the rest of the dreggs of society but not in a normal civilised world. Their lives are going down the drain when they hit their 30's and they are no longer relevant. Their only desirable skill will be being capable of sending out incoherent dumb tweets.

[Tom4784]

He's one of the more odious people they've put in the house. An awful human being that's only really being tolerated because of his looks. If he looked like James I doubt he'd have survived the last eviction. He's killing this series.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

He's one of the more odious people they've put in the house. An awful human being that's only really being tolerated because of his looks. If he looked like James I doubt he'd have survived the last eviction. He's killing this series.

THAT is one brilliant thought Dezzie which did not occur to me, but is true though. I don't think he'd still be in there either if it wasn't for being a 'pretty boy' now that I think about it. It just all dovetails with the 'superficiality' of that bunch, which seems to please some people. And I agree that he is KILLING this show, and it is a shame.

[mr rochester]

So sorry to hear of your experience Kirk. Thanks for sharing it. It helps to illustrate exactly what you are trying to get across. Why don't you write one of your brilliantly funny poems about it?

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by mr rochester

So sorry to hear of your experience Kirk. Thanks for sharing it. It helps to illustrate exactly what you are trying to get across. Why don't you write one of your brilliantly funny poems about it?

Thanks Mr Rochester - I think I will do.

[mr rochester]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

Thanks Mr Rochester - I think I will do.

Good man - look forward to reading it soon

[Cal.]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

He's one of the more odious people they've put in the house. An awful human being that's only really being tolerated because of his looks. If he looked like James I doubt he'd have survived the last eviction. He's killing this series.

[Ian Coke]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

He's one of the more odious people they've put in the house. An awful human being that's only really being tolerated because of his looks. If he looked like James I doubt he'd have survived the last eviction. He's killing this series.

I don't know. Stephen Bear is this year's Perez Hilton; someone who, through relentless attention-seeking, has managed to wind up the rest of the house to the point where, whether they love him or hate him, they can't think about anything else. With his silly goats face and receding hairline, Perez Hilton is not a handsome guy, so I'm not sure Bear's success, thus far, can be entirely ascribed to his looks.

[the truth]

When will they ever understand one basic rule, ignore attention seekers and they soon run out of oxygen. This is literally all the housemates (other than the odious lewis, the selfish marnie and the brainless chloe) need to do. Let the moronic mob alone with their own juvenile thoughts. James whale is the man who must lead the revolt and he started well last night. As a group demand BB action. As a group totally blank them 100% of the time. BUT with a moronic bully like bear you have to pick your battles carefully. Ive noticed ricki has come in at the wrong time when bear is on a task or something, BAD move. Wait until he does something totally moronic like smash the house again or destroy food again. Bang wipe the floor with him , report to BB, then walk away and talk about anything other than this moron. There is something in the Bible about handling the devil, simply by ignoring him.

[Paula D]

Originally Posted by the truth

When will they ever understand one basic rule, ignore attention seekers and they soon run out of oxygen. This is literally all the housemates (other than the odious lewis, the selfish marnie and the brainless chloe) need to do. Let the moronic mob alone with their own juvenile thoughts. James whale is the man who must lead the revolt and he started well last night. As a group demand BB action. As a group totally blank them 100% of the time. BUT with a moronic bully like bear you have to pick your battles carefully. Ive noticed ricki has come in at the wrong time when bear is on a task or something, BAD move. Wait until he does something totally moronic like smash the house again or destroy food again. Bang wipe the floor with him , report to BB, then walk away and talk about anything other than this moron. There is something in the Bible about handling the devil, simply by ignoring him.

Very very hard to ignore these yobs when they're disturbing your sleep. Sleep deprivation is a form of torture and this d**khead Bear knows it. Lewis is as bad. They were definitely bullying Heavy D last night and it was horrible to watch.

[the truth]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

Bear is NOT funny at all - He is a BULLYING YOB. It does not matter what 'funny voice' he affects - He is a BULLYING YOB, plain and simple.

If I want to watch ignorant, uncouth, bullies such as Bear and Bloor, I do NOT need to turn on my TV set, I can go into the City centre on any weekend at night or on any Bank Holiday during the daytime.

I am getting old, and have had just 5 fights in the past 4 years or so, and EVERY single time, it was not only with a Stephen Bear or Lewis Bloor, but also NOT at my instigation.

I was standing in quite a long cinema queue with my wife and two young nephews of 10 and 12 years old, and had been queuing for about 15 minutes, when Bear, Bloor and two other clones walked STRAIGHT to the front of the queue and pushed in.

The queue was a mixed one, with parents with young children, older people, and young couples, and one slightly built dad with a young girl of about 8 years old - who was at the front of the queue and had been directly jostled by Bear and Bloor and co - tried to protest, but got a load of abuse back from them for his troubles, and understandably, clammed up.

That was just before I shouted to them to get to the back of the queue.

I will not go into details, but they DID eventually go to the BACK of the queue.

I was in a busy town centre pub, again with my wife, and was waiting to be served at a bar. There were 3 other people - a young couple, and a young girl, who were waiting to be served at the bar before me, as well as others being served.

The barman serving customers at 'our' section of the bar was Stephen Bear.

Along with the three others who were waiting, I waited for over 10 minutes as gangs of other Stephen Bears kept pushing into the growing numbers of people joining the 'queue of customers wanting to be served, and WITHOUT FAIL, 'Bear the Barman' - who so obviously KNEW them, served them and ignored both my call and that of the three who were before me. The cheeky twat even looked at us as we tried to tell him that we were next then ignored us anyway.

After no joy trying to attract the attention of the other nearest barman - who DID seem to be serving customers in his section in order - I tried Bear again, but no joy, as he just looked, seemed to become annoyed and snapped at me to "wait", then continued laughing and chatting to his 'mates' as he served them.

This ended up with my grabbing him, dragging him half across the bar and telling him in my best 'French' what fate awaited him if he did not start serving quiet customers in the order of waiting time.

When I let him go, he summoned the bouncers, but was out of luck as the two that came knew me, and knew that I did not cause trouble, so after listening to what happened, they told him that he better start serving according to waiting time then left.

Bear came to me - all nice and sheepish now - apologised and asked me what drinks I wanted. He seemed genuinely shocked when I pointed to the young couple and the other girl - who were STILL waiting - and I said; "Those two first, then that girl, THEN me".

Stephen Bear is NOT entertaining in the slightest. He is nothing more than an egotistical, ignorant, selfish, BULLY - one of a rapidly growing number of Stephen Bears who are infesting society, and ruining the quality of life of other people by IMPOSING his WILL upon them without any regard for them, or their rights, or their wishes.

THEY are the ones who feel it is BENEATH them to queue with we ORDINARY citizens - whether it be outside a cinema, at a bar waiting to be served, or even at a shop cash out - THEY are the ones who, in NUMBERS -- NEVER alone -- walk straight to the front of the queue and push in.

THEY are the ones, who walk THROUGH people BARGING them aside, in crowded pubs, clubs, shops, or on city sidewalks. NOT for them, the careful negotiating AROUND elderly people, parents with young children, or even mere slow walkers, as we ORDINARY citizens do.

And we do NOT even have to SEE these ignorant twats to suffer from their crass bullying behaviour.

I HEAR them every week whether it is while I am sitting peacefully in my garden on a warm sunny Sunday afternoon or in my room late at night quietly reading, or listening to music, or watching TV.

THEY are the ones who spend long periods, REVVING UP their stationary 'souped up' motorcycles, and cars which have had the bafflers removed so that the sound is even more invasive and deafening.

THEY are the ones who let off FIREWORKS from 9pm to well into the early hours EVERY single weekend all year round now, with NO REGARD for other people, their sleeping babies and young children, or their terrified pet dogs.

THEY are the ones who SCREAM and SHOUT at the top of their drunken voices at 3 and 4am in the morning as they walk home through sleeping Housing Estates, with NO regard for other people.

THEY are also the ones who throw their empty beer bottles, cans and take-way wrappers over other people's garden fences, and the ones who piss up against the gable walls of other people's houses on their way home from the nightclubs and pubs.

Some of you on here, may try to tell me that you find Bear and Bloor's behaviour 'funny', and if that is what 'floats your boat', fair enough - it is a free country - but do NOT try to convince me that they are NOT bullies, because I have WITNESSED how these two ignorant twats, AND their vacuous molls, Marnie and Chloe, are imposing their antisocial, guttersnipe and aggressive behaviour upon the quieter, more decent and thoughtful members of the house, and I RECOGNISE how that is impairing the quality of their time in the house, stifling their rights to enjoy themselves, and intimidating them, and I CALL that BULLYING.
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They are boring bulllies, but emma willis who is a wolf in sheeps clothing , calls these types of people the strong characters, the entertaining characters and calls james whale the quiet characters who fly below the radar. code for viewers to keep the animals in there.......the days of actually showing actual conversation and anecdotes or learning about these peoples lives are long gone. all we get is morons throwing eggs and cakes and flashing their fake tits. big brother actively encourages and rewards this kind of behaviour?

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by the truth

They are boring bulllies, but emma willis who is a wolf in sheeps clothing , calls these types of people the strong characters, the entertaining characters and calls james whale the quiet characters who fly below the radar. code for viewers to keep the animals in there.......the days of actually showing actual conversation and anecdotes or learning about these peoples lives are long gone. all we get is morons throwing eggs and cakes and flashing their fake tits. big brother actively encourages and rewards this kind of behaviour?

That segment, Truth, when the four of them were doing all that is THE worst TV I have ever watched. The show has sunk to pandering to the lowest common denominators.