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Ah I can't post apologies...

But if I could it would be that I'm sorry but I can't add a yes or no poll that is private when you post ...


After works drinks, I do apologise for that x
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Well I've just managed to contradict myself with the poll...so it's no that bad.


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Every single day, everything I do is a struggle. Even when I'm just doing my hair or making a meal there's an internal feeling telling me "I can't do it, it's too much work, just give up and go back to bed."
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Every single day, everything I do is a struggle. Even when I'm just doing my hair or making a meal there's an internal feeling telling me "I can't do it, it's too much work, just give up and go back to bed."
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I've gotten better at taking control of it, I even went on a day out today and attended to some important business even though I was absolutely pooing myself with anxiety.
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I've gotten better at taking control of it, I even went on a day out today and attended to some important business even though I was absolutely pooing myself with anxiety.
...but you did it, you took control of it ...that’s a huge thing, Jess...and the thing to hold onto and build on ...and don’t allow your thoughts to focus more on your anxiety levels of how you were feeling...try to refocus them on the control you took and that empowerment..?.....that was pretty amazing, eh...
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I've gotten better at taking control of it, I even went on a day out today and attended to some important business even though I was absolutely pooing myself with anxiety.
That's impressive, I think that most of us (myself included) would've given up attending if they were feeling like that.

You should be proud of yourself imo.
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That's impressive, I think that most of us (myself included) would've given up attending if they were feeling like that.

You should be proud of yourself imo.
I agree with this.

When my anxiety is bad (lolwhenisn'titlately?) I plain don't go anywhere, can't face anything especially anything like what you've stated.

Good on you Jessica!
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Yes. Beginning to realise so now more than ever.
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Occasionally.
7 weeks on antibiotics and legs that won’t let me sleep gets a bit bothersome.
However there is always something to look forward to.

Keep strong Jess, little steps at a time will get you there.
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7 weeks on antibiotics and legs that won’t let me sleep gets a bit bothersome.

However there is always something to look forward to.



Keep strong Jess, little steps at a time will get you there.
Thanks Smudgie, hope you get some relief from the issue with your legs.
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Currently, very much so. But there are people much worse off than me so I shouldn’t grumble. I’m lucky I have a family that help me but yeah, it’s hard atm thanks to panic disorder/attacks/general severe anxiety.

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You should grumble! There's always gonna be someone objectively "worse off" no matter what circumstance you're in, but that doesn't mean you can't be upset
I like to think a big part of healing is being honest about how much what you're going through hurts, and for that you should speak about it however you feel fit
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Anyone who says no as in NEVER is surely not being entirely honest?
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of course everyone struggles at some point, not every day though for most

literally what Wizard said, life is hard, but it can also be great, otherwise what is the point
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of course everyone struggles at some point, not every day though for most

literally what Wizard said, life is hard, but it can also be great, otherwise what is the point
That's the distinction. The thread is confused.

The title is "Do you struggle in life?" and the poll is "Do you struggle at times?"

Two different things.

I would imagine the second question is a yes for everyone, the first a yes for only some people.
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That's the distinction. The thread is confused.

The title is "Do you struggle in life?" and the poll is "Do you struggle at times?"

Two different things.

I would imagine the second question is a yes for everyone, the first a yes for only some people.
struggle can mean anything though, struggling financially, emotionally, academically, finding a job, so I would say the answer is yes to both for most
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