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Old 29-05-2022, 04:45 PM #1
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What are your feelings on this subject?

I've had a couple of experiences with younger guys.
One when I was 27 and he was 18 and one when I was 40 and he was 28. I'm happy now with someone a little older than myself.
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Nah, as long as you are both legal.
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Mock if you were a Dad and your darling 18 year old daughter said she is dating a 44 year old bloke from the Black Country im sure you would not be like:

"i say darling that is just dandy, when can we have the chap over for a Curry supper?"
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Mock if you were a Dad and your darling 18 year old daughter said she is dating a 44 year old bloke from the Black Country im sure you would not be like:

"i say darling that is just dandy, when can we have the chap over for a Curry supper?"
That’s the standard protective father routine

I’d rather my daughter be with an older man who worshipped her than some snotty nose kid treating her like sh1t

It’s hard but they are not kids forever
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That’s the standard protective father routine

I’d rather my daughter be with an older man who worshipped her than some snotty nose kid treating her like sh1t

It’s hard but they are not kids forever
sure you would

in that instance you would react like every father would
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Mock if you were a Dad and your darling 18 year old daughter said she is dating a 44 year old bloke from the Black Country im sure you would not be like:

"i say darling that is just dandy, when can we have the chap over for a Curry supper?"
What's up with the Black Country? Besides Wolverhampton Wanderers anyway.

But in all seriousness in that scenario it would honestly depend on how long that they've known each other for.

Like for example if he was her Teacher back in Primary School then I'd see that as a massive red flag.
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What's up with the Black Country? Besides Wolverhampton Wanderers anyway.

But in all seriousness in that scenario it would honestly depend on how long that they've known each other for.

Like for example if he was her Teacher back in Primary School then I'd see that as a massive red flag.

What if it was one of your mates?
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Its best to stick with someone your age
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Its best to stick with someone your age
Well i'm 11 yrs older than my partner and we've been together over 30yrs.
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Well i'm 11 yrs older than my partner and we've been together over 30yrs.

I’m just 2 years older and we’ve been together 44 years !!
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Well i'm 11 yrs older than my partner and we've been together over 30yrs.
Then you are an exception that would prove the rule

Noone is saying that age gaps dont work just that its easier if the person has the same themes growing up - music, sport, news, films etc
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As long as its 5 year age gap maximum I think
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How old are you now kate?
52 summers old Parmy.
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52 summers old Parmy.
Oh, you're the same age as me, no wonder theres this sexual tension between us.
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Oh, you're the same age as me, no wonder theres this sexual tension between us.
Omg no parmy just no .
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Oh, you're the same age as me, no wonder theres this sexual tension between us.
I think we have all spotted it parmy
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I think we have all spotted it parmy

Love those fireworks !!

How can I save and use them ??
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I think we have all spotted it parmy
We have...Parmy’s been pulling Kates pigtails for weeks
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I’ve been on both sides

When I was 19 I was seeing a 31 year old and when I was 31 I was seeing a 19 year old

If two people are attracted to each other and want an adult relationship there is nothing wrong

One of my successful friends his daughter married and older man and gave kids together
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Some so called men are dicks and never grow up.
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The age gap is only relevant for maybe under 50’s ... any older and there is no issue imho


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Habitually I'd say "it doesn't really matter, it's more about the person", but I've never really been interested in anyone more than a couple of years either side of my own age.
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