[vesavius]

First, really bored of her constantly attempting to control the speech of others.

Secondly, I hated when she used her job as a shield and pretended to not be 'sensitive'.

She clearly, in her own words, admits to Marcello that she was offended by his conversation. It wasn't about her job, it WAS about her being offended. why even lie like that? More manipulation.

This is the 'blunt honesty' some love her for? Nah.

Marcello was not 'telling her off', he was attempting to express to her that she had handled the situation badly but, as ever, queen ****ing Ali is never wrong and always perfect. In her head at least.

"I don't think that this conversation is helpful because I don't think that you are going to agree with me"... there we have it, Ali in a nutshell. It's only every 'helpful' if you bend the knee to her.

[GlitterUK]

Cannot stand the bully. Her treatment of Khaled was awful. She is a hypocritical cold bitch.

[Gusto Brunt]

Originally Posted by GlitterUK

Cannot stand the bully. Her treatment of Khaled was awful. She is a hypocritical cold bitch.

I wouldn't go as far as saying I can't stand her, but she is a rather dull person who using what she does in her day job, to try and twist what the housmates say or are feeling.

She doens't have a sense of humour and I find everything she says in small talk tedious.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Gusto Brunt

I wouldn't go as far as saying I can't stand her, but she is a rather dull person who using what she does in her day job, to try and twist what the housmates say or are feeling.

She doens't have a sense of humour and I find everything she says in small talk tedious.

Having a sense of humour is something rarely attributed to autistic people .. indeed.

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Some autistic people both get and make jokes of the more “traditional” variety. But some people with autism simply don’t find popular joke types or structures amusing. While they may get the point of a funny anecdote or something that is visually or physically funny, they may struggle with more contrived types of humour.


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[Gusto Brunt]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Having a sense of humour is something rarely attributed to autistic people .. indeed.

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Some autistic people both get and make jokes of the more “traditional” variety. But some people with autism simply don’t find popular joke types or structures amusing. While they may get the point of a funny anecdote or something that is visually or physically funny, they may struggle with more contrived types of humour.


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I didn't know she has autism. But all the same, she is still boring. Lots of autistic people in showbiz aren't dull like she is. So no excuse.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Gusto Brunt

I didn't know she has autism. But all the same, she is still boring. Lots of autistic people in showbiz aren't dull like she is. So no excuse.

She hasnt been diagnosed with Autism, by a professional. She has self diagnosed herself.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Gusto Brunt

I didn't know she has autism. But all the same, she is still boring. Lots of autistic people in showbiz aren't dull like she is. So no excuse.

Every autistic person is totally unique but they all share many traits at the same time ..


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[Mrluvaluva]

Personally I wouldn't pander to her opinions. I would call her out, but then again, like you say, she's very dismissive. I agree with every word. With discussion comes clarity. She has shown many times that she states her opinion and then walks away because she thinks she is quite correct in her viewpoints.

She needs a reality check.

[Maru]

Everything does conveniently seem to work out to be about how Ali is always right. That's always been a red flag for me for BB HMs. Nobody is 100% right all the time. And yet she's incredibly self-aware she leaves this perception because she's often prepping people with "I'll admit fault, if X" and how she's ready to concede different views, but never seems to find herself in a position to actually have to do the work to do so. It's always conveniently done when it works in her favor.

There are times we should actively take part in sharing blame with others, instead of picking it apart looking for inaccurate bits. Especially when there are relationships that could be worth salvaging or maintaining. This isn't the same as someone being angry at themselves for not getting it right. Or being sorry that another person as a result "feels bad". Or even worse, reduces another person's main complaints in a disagreement to be lesser than, more like simple clerical errors in judgement. Sometimes though people will turn around their massive errors to be more like a compliment that seemingly works against themselves ... "my virtuousness got the best of me".

People that work in that way will generally reduce others down to their level of score-keeping, so we never really get in touch with the real them. We sort of just get reminded our placement on some imaginary scoreboard. Of course, it is conveniently rigged to work out so that where they are forced to admit fault lies, it's usually something only they themselves can actually analyze using their self-made special rubric.

Originally Posted by Mrluvaluva

Personally I wouldn't pander to her opinions. I would call her out, but then again, like you say, she's very dismissive. I agree with every word. With discussion comes clarity. She has shown many times that she states her opinion and then walks away because she thinks she is quite correct in her viewpoints.

She needs a reality check.

Yes, she does that to control the other person I feel like and enjoys the fact it makes them feel distressed that they can't resolve issues with her easily. They have to approach it in a way where it's going to put themselves in a position to feel vulnerable and for her, that makes them easier to provoke. It sometimes hard for someone being in this treated this way to admit to themselves that this person can be so methodical, because they prefer to believe there's some middle road option. People like that will see that, though, and take advantage of it.

She really does seem to interpret Khaled's willingness to be gracious towards others as as a weakness. Her problem is not that he is "fake". It's more that he clearly is imaginary, because the idea of someone having that willingness to connect to others is too foreign, or maybe even scary, because God forbid there be a person in her world who competes with her inner Therapy Goddess. It also says a lot about the depth of her character and how she interprets that as a character flaw if she were to show any signs of vulnerability and second-guessing around others.

Marcello does try to console people too and I've noticed he uses a lot of positivity-language also when dealing with others. I wonder if that's another reason he was pegged, is that he's gone too far and is contradicting her friendly doctor friend position too much. Just a guess. It's not like Marcello hasn't been shifting space and time to violate other personal boundaries, but that wasn't even her main complaint...... perhaps she feels if says the quiet part outloud, it'll make her gameplan too obvious, so she had to come up with the "Actually, my job will be in trouble" nonsense.

Just some speculations.

[GlitterUK]

If you are that concerned for your job don't come on BB. She has a superiority complex.
Like others has said she is a Poundland Sigmund Freud.

Man hater -
Put Ryan in storage on day 1 over Martha yet he was Blue team which confused us back then but makes sense now
Dislike of Khaled/seed planting
Calling Khaled out in group setting
what would she do if she was PM - give men a curfew
Lily can talk about being horny, suck toes, sit with her legs wide open and be vulgar yet nothing said.
Emma can be vulgar, Sarah also nothing said.
Rosie part of the sex chat yet doesn't get any initial flak
The general way she talks down to men
Shaming Marcello in a group setting when talking about sex stuff belittling him.

She tries to control others. For someone who is a psychologist she is judgemental, patronising, calculated and a master manipulator and not someone I would want to work with.

People use excuses like it is her ADHD etc but it is not she has a stinking attitude.

She is however an entertaining housemate and divides the audience.

[GlitterUK]

She reminds me of Roxanne Palette from celeb bb in the way she goes about things. There is some real hate within her like Roxy was with that poor lad.

[Mrluvaluva]

She's made Khaled feel uncomfortable. Now Marcello. She's been **** stirring about Sarah and others. She was **** stirring to Lily on live feed on Saturday night. If it's your aim in life to do that then that's not a great attribute in a person.

[GlitterUK]

She is too busy commenting on others, she needs to look at her own actions before judging others.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by GlitterUK

She is too busy commenting on others, she needs to look at her own actions before judging others.

They are all continuously talking about other housemates - that’s because there’s nothing else to do .

You realise that , surely ?


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[bots]

I don't think Ali deals with individual "patients" on a personal level. She doesn't appear to be a doctor, so how could she get struck off.

If she had patients, could she just leave them to someone else for 6+ weeks to go on a TV show? Is that not more of a red flag to any disciplinary board than what someone says on a TV show? This doesn't add up to me. Is she a BB mole? I'm sensing something a bit fishy

[Beso]

Originally Posted by bots

I don't think Ali deals with individual "patients" on a personal level. She doesn't appear to be a doctor, so how could she get struck off.

If she had patients, could she just leave them to someone else for 6+ weeks to go on a TV show? Is that not more of a red flag to any disciplinary board than what someone says on a TV show? This doesn't add up to me. Is she a BB mole? I'm sensing something a bit fishy

Bb rat

[bots]

Originally Posted by Beso

Bb rat

i doubt she really is a bb plant, but her professional life isn't exactly clear, and she hasn't done anything to clarify it

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by vesavius

First, really bored of her constantly attempting to [b]control[b] the speech of others.

Secondly, I hated when she used her job as a shield and pretended to not be 'sensitive'.

She clearly, in her own words, admits to Marcello that she was offended by his conversation. It wasn't about her job, it WAS about her being offended. why even lie like that? More manipulation.

This is the 'blunt honesty' some love her for? Nah.

Marcello was not 'telling her off', he was attempting to express to her that she had handled the situation badly but, as ever, queen ****ing Ali is never wrong and always perfect. In her head at least.

"I don't think that this conversation is helpful because I don't think that you are going to agree with me"... there we have it, Ali in a nutshell. It's only every 'helpful' if you bend the knee to her.

…yeah I think ‘control’ is exactly the right word and way of it…with that conversation, I personally don’t think it was so much the content of it…(…although, she didn’t like the content…)…but I personally think that it was more that she couldn’t leave as BB had gathered them on the sofa…?…so it’s that lack of or giving up of ‘control’ and I honestly think that’s what Ali is struggling with…she tried to close down Marcello by saying that she KNEW what would get her struck off the register with her job…I mean, that’s just nonsense, it really is…to say that it’s ok with the register and employers to go into the BB house but not to be present for any content that she isn’t a part of anyway…no, it’s all nonsense and very controlling nonsense and levelled at people to close them down and say…don’t you dare question me, how in heavens would you know…!!!!!!!!…..

[Ammi]

…I wonder if BB see these characteristics in people through the interview stages and think….ooooooo, yeah…controlling would be good, that’ll bring some drama…or if they don’t see them and they just unfold once the housemates enter the house…it’s quite interesting…

[Maru]

Originally Posted by bots

controlling personality is not a typical trait of a psychiatrist

She's not a psychiatrist as I think they handle medications and are more like clinicians. She'd have pilled Lily by now and sent her labs in to clamp down on the chronic screaming and nosepicking behavior.

[rusticgal]

Cannot stand her...she is one manipulative bitch who constantly spills hypocrisy.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…I wonder if BB see these characteristics in people through the interview stages and think….ooooooo, yeah…controlling would be good, that’ll bring some drama…or if they don’t see them and they just unfold once the housemates enter the house…it’s quite interesting…

I doubt its that subtle


all they heard was "blah blah blah blah blah lesbian blah blah blah"

tick

[bots]

controlling personality is not a typical trait of a psychiatrist

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by bots

controlling personality is not a typical trait of a psychiatrist

…Ali’s a forensic psychologist, though and the skill set with different sections of psychology will also differ…as well as training obviously…but it’s not necessarily something that would display within her job role anyway, is it…it can be there as something which creates a ‘balance’ outside of work…?…like for instance and I’m just throwing this out there in a moment, I haven’t given it any thought etc……but so much of her job/work role could be out of her control in the things she will be made aware of in human behaviour because she deals with the criminal mind, as it were…?…so ‘controlling’ in other aspects of her life could be a coping tool that she uses, if that makes sense…obviously I’m just making all of that up and pondering what you said….

[arista]

Originally Posted by bots

controlling personality is not a typical trait of a psychiatrist

Forensic Psychologist