[karezza]

Would you marry a smelly, filthy smoker & inflict stinking cigarette smoke on your children?

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by karezza

Would you marry a smelly, filthy smoker & inflict stinking cigarette smoke on your children?

no

the same way I would not marry someone who stunk of BO or watched EastEnders.

[WOMBAI]

Personally - no. It would be a big no, no for me!

[Enid]

If they smoked 20 a day, then no, but if it was a lot less than that, then I could probably accept that as long as I didn't have to breathe it in.

[Claymores]

I'm giving up cigarettes at the moment - if you like partner, do not underestimate the addiction which is more pernicious than herion Presumably you never got together with a smelly smoker?

[Niamh.]

Yes but then I am a smoker. Miraculously, I managed to find a man to marry me!

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

Yes but then I am a smoker. Miraculously, I managed to find a man to marry me!

I'm gasping at the mo - divorce him and geez a cig pal!

[xDramatick]

Originally Posted by Enid

If they smoked 20 a day, then no, but if it was a lot less than that, then I could probably accept that as long as I didn't have to breathe it in.

this.
my current bf used to smoke, especially when drunk. he gave up over a year ago and now only has the odd cigar or cigarette when drunk.

i'm fairly anti-smoking if i'm honest, i can't stand it.
i find it a huge turn off, so i couldn't get with anyone who smoked like a train, let alone marry one.

[\PJ/]

It depends,if there love smoking so much it stops you doing things then they will be married to the habbit and not you.

[Enid]

Originally Posted by Darenn

this.
my current bf used to smoke, especially when drunk. he gave up over a year ago and now only has the odd cigar or cigarette when drunk.

i'm fairly anti-smoking if i'm honest, i can't stand it.
i find it a huge turn off, so i couldn't get with anyone who smoked like a train, let alone marry one.

It's a weird one for me. I'm anti-smoking too. Hate the smell, hate the taste, but it turns me on, lol. I love seeing a sexy man or woman smoke.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Claymores

I'm gasping at the mo - divorce him and geez a cig pal!

haha, how long are you off them?

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

haha, how long are you off them?

4 weeks - not using patches but e-cig to come down off the nicotice

[King Gizzard]

Its been the stumbling block with potential GF's before

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Claymores

4 weeks - not using patches but e-cig to come down off the nicotice

e-cig? like the inhaler thingys? 4 weeks is about the longest I ever managed, It just seemed to get harder rather than easier!

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

e-cig? like the inhaler thingys? 4 weeks is about the longest I ever managed, It just seemed to get harder rather than easier!

E-cig is better than inhaler thing.......it looks like cig with something to play with in hand, but when inhale, the battery ignites the vaporiser, which gives a water vapour (not smoke) to lungs with nicotine hit.

It has no smell unlike cigs so used to use this when I went to non-smokers' houses instead of standing outside for one. Now I trying to quit using this full time instead of silly nicotice elastoplasts

[Tom4784]

If I liked someone enough to marry them then I doubt smoking would impact that really.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Claymores

E-cig is better than inhaler thing.......it looks like cig with something to play with in hand, but when inhale, the battery ignites the vaporiser, which gives a vapour (not smoke) to lungs with nicotine hit.

It has no smell unlike cigs so used to use this when I went to non-smokers' houses instead of standing outside for one. Now I trying to quit using this full time instead of silly nicotice elastoplasts

I never heard of them, but the inhalers were the only thing that kept me going when I did try to give up. That sounds like the thing to try for me so the next time I give it a shot

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

If I liked someone enough to marry them then I doubt smoking would impact that really.

good answer

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

I never heard of them, but the inhalers were the only thing that kept me going when I did try to give up. That sounds like the thing to try for me so the next time I give it a shot

I'm doing fine Niam - except when out on the booze @ weekends and have taken 1 or 2 real fags outside pub from pals.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Claymores

I'm doing fine Niam - except when out on the booze @ weekends and have taken 1 or 2 real fags outside pub from pals.

Oh yeah, Will power almost disappears when you have a drink! They go together so well! Best of luck with it anyway, I know it's so hard

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

I never heard of them, but the inhalers were the only thing that kept me going when I did try to give up. That sounds like the thing to try for me so the next time I give it a shot

Divorce him and marry me - I'll nick yer cigs!

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Claymores

Divorce him and marry me - I'll nick yer cigs!

haha, Stay Strong Claymores!!! I would only make you weak with my dirty ciggies!!!

[InOne]

My Ex used to smoke, and I used to ask her for a cig when drunk and she'd say no

[teamandre]

no i would never all thought i really like some who smokes so i gess i woulod have to put up with it

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by InOne

My Ex used to smoke, and I used to ask her for a cig when drunk and she'd say no

Good girl - I didn't have cig until 19 (many moons ago!) - at time in 1980s I was about one of the blokes who didn't smoke. My ex and her pals all did and we'd go out in 4-some to night out and she'd make me smoke with the other couple!!!!!

Plan was only to ever do this at weekends but here I am many years later trying to give-up!