[Livia]

Originally Posted by northerner

Great video Livia!!!!

I get all my religious instruction from Monty Python's Life of Brian, and I'm not ashamed to admit it.

Nice to meet you northerner.

[Lex]

Originally Posted by truthseeker

How can dave talk about the point his daughter consumates her marriage...yuck...he was going on and on to anyone who cared to listen as if he was fantasising about it...even saying he will be under her bed when she is consumating (having intercourse) reading some verses....Yuck yuckeek.gif

Most fathers like to not think about these things where their daughters are concerned..there is something not right about Dave...weirdo..


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3qrCUw_yqE&feature=fvw

He just wants to make sure that there's no invisible people or wolfmen lurking in the corner of the bedroom!!

[truthseeker]

Originally Posted by housemate

.....Quote Housemate: isn't the issue whether he was right or wrong to say it in the first place?

Its just my opinion, I'm not trying to tell anybody what they should or shouldn't post.
I disagree that I have to know where his idea for this 'joke' came from ... its vile in its own right , whatever its origin.

Its truly awful

[Peter Plunker]

Originally Posted by ElProximo

Its not wrong for you to have a unique view of the world and for you to control your family in its own unique sub-culture,
but,
I would recommend you realize that your world is NOT necessarily how the rest of the world runs its life, perceives things and makes judgments.

Did you know that for centuries it was not uncommon for Chinese newlyweds to be taken to their room by the wedding party where one matron from the village would be sent to watch them inside their bedroom,
and,
afterward confirm the marriage was 'consumed' by waving a blood-spotted sheet to the crowd from the window.
That was proper.

Did you know that in this modern day there are Muslim cultures that STILL practice something like this with an eye-witness and even the modern version of actual video being used to confirm the virginity and then consummation!
Today. In 2010 this actually goes on.

But it may be true that if your husband said such a thing in a joking manner it would be awkward, not match your family humour, delivered poorly. It simply would come across wrong.
You would disrespect him more,
but,
The truth is that Dave (and im no Dave fan) but he does have the sense of humour to say such things and it will be taken well by his family,
and,
inside the humour it is communicating what is a healthy sexuality inside his culture - the idea that sex is something saved for newlyweds at which time it becomes honourable and not something to be ashamed of.

That's a great summary of the situation, props to you for not letting your feelings get in the way of common sense or truth.

[watchinittoomuch]

Originally Posted by Livia

I get all my religious instruction from Monty Python's Life of Brian, and I'm not ashamed to admit it.

Nice to meet you northerner.

Liv, is Dave supposed to be a perve now?

Is it time for me to get out the 'double facepalm' pic?

[Lister of Smeg]

Originally Posted by Shasown

apparently he was there when she lost her cherry,

really he stole my cherry off of my Ice Cake to the robbing B@STARD

[blackparade]

After all the random posts between people on here about religious crap, this religious crap that, what he said was gross. If my dad 'joked' like that I would be quite disturbed. I was bought up in a christian family where nobody talked about sex either before or after marriage and that prudishness has carried on with me. So now in the age of modernity and being open about our sexual relationships, dad's are allowed and indeed congratulated on discussing their daughters sex life? And being there?? This is just too weird, there are somethings you don't joke about.

[Kitten]

Originally Posted by truthseeker

It is a very very horrible thing to imagine that he is probably lying under the bed holding the bible (with one hand) as he is quoting his verses...YUK

Truth seeker, you come across abit perverted in all honesty. You've taken this way further than it needed to go.

[Part-timer]

Originally Posted by truthseeker

tell that to the poor under aged children of India that I am trying to save. they can't speak for themselves because they are poor and impoverished, whose families have been paid a pittance to take part in this terrible spectacle which defies their human rights, and because they are unable to speak out for themselves, then I will do it for them.

Lol, Gandhi couldn't get a look in.

I like you Truthseeker keep this stuff comming,its brilliant!

[Livia]

Originally Posted by watchinittoomuch

Liv, is Dave supposed to be a perve now?

Is it time for me to get out the 'double facepalm' pic?

Oh I think it's called for, I really do.

And oh yeah.... I have a terrible confession to make.

Last time you posted the 'double facepalm' pic I nicked it and it's on my noticeboard at work LOL... I hadn't seen the 'single facepalm' one till today, and I've nicked that too! I hate myself.

[psychtracker]

Another day, another Dave hate thread...

[housemate]

Originally Posted by ElProximo

Its not wrong for you to have a unique view of the world and for you to control your family in its own unique sub-culture,
but,
I would recommend you realize that your world is NOT necessarily how the rest of the world runs its life, perceives things and makes judgments.

Did you know that for centuries it was not uncommon for Chinese newlyweds to be taken to their room by the wedding party where one matron from the village would be sent to watch them inside their bedroom,
and,
afterward confirm the marriage was 'consumed' by waving a blood-spotted sheet to the crowd from the window.
That was proper.

Did you know that in this modern day there are Muslim cultures that STILL practice something like this with an eye-witness and even the modern version of actual video being used to confirm the virginity and then consummation!
Today. In 2010 this actually goes on.

But it may be true that if your husband said such a thing in a joking manner it would be awkward, not match your family humour, delivered poorly. It simply would come across wrong.
You would disrespect him more,
but,
The truth is that Dave (and im no Dave fan) but he does have the sense of humour to say such things and it will be taken well by his family,
and,
inside the humour it is communicating what is a healthy sexuality inside his culture - the idea that sex is something saved for newlyweds at which time it becomes honourable and not something to be ashamed of.

... WHAT??
Are you insane? .... Your Post is laughable .. not to mention highly insulting.
You seem to feel that you know me (as a dictator presumably lol) and then have the audacity to accuse me of being an ill educated, single-minded buffoon with little or no knowledge or interest in other civilisations or societies!!
Let me let you into a little secret .. (unrevealed in the first post) if my Husband said anything resembling Daves statement, I would have castrated him along with losing my respect for him!.. That should more than bolster your theory that I imagine I am in charge of the Universe!!
Please do NOT presume to Psycho Analyse me again, not unless we ever meet and you have had the opportunity to have formed a founded opinion!

[watchinittoomuch]

Originally Posted by Livia

Oh I think it's called for, I really do.

And oh yeah.... I have a terrible confession to make.

Last time you posted the 'double facepalm' pic I nicked it and it's on my noticeboard at work LOL... I hadn't seen the 'single facepalm' one till today, and I've nicked that too! I hate myself.

Hahahaha!! You need not have confessed, today was the first time Ive posted one...so, you're ok, your picture stealing is still a secret, they dont know, cos it wasnt me *taps nose*

[watchinittoomuch]

Just for Liv

[Livia]

Originally Posted by watchinittoomuch

Just for Liv

LMAO... They say a picture speaks a thousand words. How freakin' true is that?!?

[blackparade]

Haha I love that poster. *taxed*

[Livia]

Originally Posted by blackparade

Haha I love that poster. *taxed*

See? I'm not the only picture nicker here...

[blackparade]

[Livia]

Originally Posted by blackparade

LOL... Oh I see you're going to fit right in :-)

[truthseeker]

Originally Posted by blackparade

After all the random posts between people on here about religious crap, this religious crap that, what he said was gross. If my dad 'joked' like that I would be quite disturbed. I was bought up in a christian family where nobody talked about sex either before or after marriage and that prudishness has carried on with me. So now in the age of modernity and being open about our sexual relationships, dad's are allowed and indeed congratulated on discussing their daughters sex life? And being there?? This is just too weird, there are somethings you don't joke about.

I have my reasons for not defending Dave as you can see.



For the supporters of Dave ,could you all defend the video?

[ElProximo]

Originally Posted by housemate

Let me let you into a little secret .. (unrevealed in the first post) if my Husband said anything resembling Daves statement, I would have castrated him along with losing my respect for him!..

I find your culture absolutely disgusting and perverse in the worst most degrading sort of way, involves you thrilling in mutilating peoples bodies and demeaning them sexually,
but,
at the end of the day this sexual thrill you get from violence and humiliation comes back to your own self-hatred.
That or your husband should come to his senses, slap you into the floor, pack his bags and go find a real woman who doesn't need this kind of sicko stuff.

Just a suggestion.