[Holly Christmas]

I absolutely love this woman/lady/queen
Delete as appropriate.

She's one of the people that keep me on this forum.

Just wanted to say that today.

An utter angel on earth.

[arista]

Yes Ammi
a Special Poster

[Holly Christmas]

Originally Posted by arista

Yes Ammi
a Special Poster

She certainly is Arista yes.

She's made me see this morning that friendship is always worth saying sorry for, so Parm I am really sorry again that I misunderstood you in the Santa thread...truly! I really wasn't ungrateful, you did put thought into it and I appreciate you were joking, hey I'm oversensitive, I always own up to that, there are worse faults I think. Xx I've reflected and Benjamin was right, the world doesn't revolve round me, sometimes I over estimate my own importance lol. I know people do love and value me on here because they say so. I return the feelings a thousand times over.

That goes for anyone who I'm sometimes touchy with, probably most of you lol. I will always say sorry, and it's genuine. I love this forum so damm much. I have tears in my eyes right now so I'll stop. Going out for breakfast so I want to wear a smile.


@Pigeon Lady @Cranbenny Jamin @Parumpapapump

[The Human Santapede]

[UserSince2005]

There’s no space for a queen on the forum because im King and im gay as ****.

[Parmy]

@Kate.

I've only now seen this thread,

I shouldnt be telling you how to feel or live your life as everyone deals with stuff differently.

Ive just been in the shower to give myself time to digest and cool down a bit on what's been said on the forum and no doubt in pms, So I will talk you through my gifts.

3 of them were nice presents. Bingo pen included. I thought you still went to bingo and only had a problem with online slots, as I don't really see bingo as gambling, but I guess for some it can become a problem, so J understand now why you may 5hink the present was a piss take or a dig, it certainly wasnt meant that way...the starmer pillow case obviously was because of the funny things you've said about him on here when he annoys you. So that was obviously meant as a fun/joke gift..you can give him a face full of boils now if you still want to get use out of the redundant pen.

Your words for my gifts were very humbling kate, and I think perhaps that is why I've softened a bit about this whole thing. I wasnt around yesterday so not much about pms and other people is making sense to me, it did make my ears feel very hot though, but i will just ignore that part, and concentrate on you, and your mind words.


Which is where my gifts also came from, a place of kindness. So with that I accept tour apology, and also apologise for trying to tell you how you should react to situations, everyone is different.

So lets draw a line under it and be thankful for what we have.

[Merry Mockmas]

Ammi's a brilliant poster.

[Holly Christmas]

Originally Posted by Parumpapapump

@Kate.

I've only now seen this thread,

I shouldnt be telling you how to feel or live your life as everyone deals with stuff differently.

Ive just been in the shower to give myself time to digest and cool down a bit on what's been said on the forum and no doubt in pms, So I will talk you through my gifts.

3 of them were nice presents. Bingo pen included. I thought you still went to bingo and only had a problem with online slots, as I don't really see bingo as gambling, but I guess for some it can become a problem, so J understand now why you may 5hink the present was a piss take or a dig, it certainly wasnt meant that way...the starmer pillow case obviously was because of the funny things you've said about him on here when he annoys you. So that was obviously meant as a fun/joke gift..you can give him a face full of boils now if you still want to get use out of the redundant pen.

Your words for my gifts were very humbling kate, and I think perhaps that is why I've softened a bit about this whole thing. I wasnt around yesterday so not much about pms and other people is making sense to me, it did make my ears feel very hot though, but i will just ignore that part, and concentrate on you, and your mind words.


Which is where my gifts also came from, a place of kindness. So with that I accept tour apology, and also apologise for trying to tell you how you should react to situations, everyone is different.

So lets draw a line under it and be thankful for what we have.

yes Parm of course. I love you. We have a friendship, with all the ups and downs. You're a lovely man and you have a good heart. You've suffered, so as I'm currently stuffing my face with choccies and mini cheddar and indulging in a glass of alcohol free wine, I am raising my glass to you and me, and our lovely sons who are lost to us in different ways. Have a lovely day.

Love Kate xx

[Cherry Christmas]

I read the drama only today, and I can totally see where Parm was coming from with the gifts, the Starmer cushion is a joke and you can use it to smash his face in when you are frustrated Kate, and the bingo Pen I would not have thought of that as gambling as going to the bingo is more social, online bingo is gambling.....so yes Ammi is some kind of saint to have talked you down, I was rolling my eyes Missy love ya Kate x

[Good King Glennceslas]

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again.

People take this place way too seriously.

[Holly Christmas]

Originally Posted by Cherie Christmas

I read the drama only today, and I can totally see where Parm was coming from with the gifts, the Starmer cushion in a joke and you can use it to smash his face in when you are frustrated Kate, and the bingo Pen I would not have thought of that as gambling as going to the bingo is more social, online bingo is gambling.....so yes Ammi is some kind of saint to have talked you down, I was rolling my eyes Missy love ya Kate x

Well, I'll only disagree on one point Cherie, which is that bingo is very much gambling and highly addictive, I had to go to therapy, counselling, a help group whatever you call it lol. I can never go again. Plus as I said I had people saying it was a little bit wrong to choose a pen and Starmer but I'll not have those people vilified, it felt fair comment. But I love Parm and he really took the trouble to be nice, accept my apology for misunderstanding him and explained his thinking. I'm satisfied with all that. I don't do online bingo or anything else gambling wise except a flutter on the Grand National and The Derby annually. Bingo had a hold on me and was creating serious problems both with my boyfriend and anger issues when I didn't win. It won't defeat me. I'm confident I'll never go again. I still have the social aspect of it as in I made some good friends who I keep regularly in touch with, meet up with. So that's positive. I have to stay away from bingo halls.

Thank you Cherie. Love you too.

[Holly Christmas]

Bump cos Ammi's not seen this...

[Ammi]

…oh hello……sometimes shes ok/sometimes not so much and she really doesn’t know very much about pigeons at all…(…but I don’t make you see anything, you always get there on your own…you just don’t give yourself enough acknowledgement of that…)…you have your own way and path of getting there and working through……just as we all do…



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[Holly Christmas]

Originally Posted by Pigeon Lady

…oh hello……sometimes shes ok/sometimes not so much and she really doesn’t know very much about pigeons at all…(…but I don’t make you see anything, you always get there on your own…you just don’t give yourself enough acknowledgement of that…)…you have your own way and path of getting there and working through……just as we all do…



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Yes but you have such a lovely way of wording things that I adore, and it makes my thoughts click into place, you're my inspiration. Love you. Xx