[56natasha]

Originally posted by yousoboo!
I think that if a guy did what Noirin is doing in BB, the voting public would dislike him to. Nobody likes to see a one sided relationship.

It's not a man's fault he is attracted by physical apperance. Its just the way we are made.

What Marcus was doing was sexual harrassment, Noirin liked him as a friend so didn't want to make him feel stupid so she continued been friends with him which of course Marcus been a guy took to mean she must be interested.

Noirin was so scared to upset him which is very justified after how Marcus has reacted to the whole kiss thing with Siavash & don't get me started on that...she informed Marcus she wasn't interested in him & then pursued it with Siavash, the only person in the wrong is Siavash because he is great mates with Marcus but Noirin made it very clear.

Marcus is the most delusional man I have ever come across, why wuld someone like Norin ever want to be someone like Marcus.

[saraholeila]

'reallynow', i feel very sorry for you. It sounds like your 'other half' is a control freak who wouldn't give up. If you don't even fancy him, then you are just friends. I still tingle everytime i look at my bf of 8 years, and i would be long gone if i didn't.
Marcus should go, btw, cos he's behaving like a stalker. I guarantee she'll have a barring order against him within a month of leaving the house.

[reallynow]

Originally posted by saraholeila
'reallynow', i feel very sorry for you. It sounds like your 'other half' is a control freak who wouldn't give up. If you don't even fancy him, then you are just friends. I still tingle everytime i look at my bf of 8 years, and i would be long gone if i didn't.
Marcus should go, btw, cos he's behaving like a stalker. I guarantee she'll have a barring order against him within a month of leaving the house.

Lolol he is a mega control freak but I have grown to love him, he is a real mans man, I just wouldnt leave him now, no way, and I say this because we have been through so much together good and bad and through this the love has built up!

[nastynorrie]

HE'S A JOKE HE WARNED SREE ABOUT HIS BEHAVIOUR AND NOW HE'S DOING THE EXACT SAME TO HER, HE NEEDS TO GO AND GROW UP ALL THAT HARD MAN ACT IS JUST THAT AN ACT HE IS A CONTROL FREAK AND IF HE CANT HAVE HIM NO ONE WILL, LOLO JUST LIKE PETER ANDRE

[hennessy]

My girlfriend's sister is a stunner and she's got a balding ginger as a husband. He pestered her til she gave in. 5 years and 3 kids later they're happy as beans.
If Marcus had been told straight away and no flirting, he would've handled it a bit better.
I hope Siavash doesn't get hurt


and saraholeila
I'd hate to be your boyfriend knowing that as soon as you lose that tingle or you get that tingle for another guy you're gone.
I hope you don't have kids when you decide to chase your next tingle.

[saraholeila]

Originally posted by reallynow

Lolol he is a mega control freak but I have grown to love him, he is a real mans man, I just wouldnt leave him now, no way, and I say this because we have been through so much together good and bad and through this the love has built up!

You shouldn't have to work that hard to love someone. Hmmm, this sounds a bit Kerry Katona & Mark Croft-ish. I'm beginning to realise how very lucky I am. My fiance is literally my other half, we are so similar and happy. If he tried to control anything I did I'd just laugh, and so would he. We are 100% equal. I hope you have your own life and freedom at least.

[saraholeila]

I was pestered into going out with one guy in my teens and he would not take no for an answer! I spent 2 months avoiding him, then he dumped me. He tried to get back together with me a week later and when I said no he badmouthed me to everyone we both knew! Like Marcus he lived with his aging, sick mum, who he expected to serve him. Some men are v. sad.

[saraholeila]

...also, I've never regretted turning down anyone, and Noirin's turned down Marcus A LOT! If a guy turned me down I'd be mortified and never go there again.

[hennessy]

I agree some men are bad.
you have to work hard to maintain that tingle...

[reallynow]

Originally posted by saraholeila

You shouldn't have to work that hard to love someone. Hmmm, this sounds a bit Kerry Katona & Mark Croft-ish. I'm beginning to realise how very lucky I am. My fiance is literally my other half, we are so similar and happy. If he tried to control anything I did I'd just laugh, and so would he. We are 100% equal. I hope you have your own life and freedom at least.

I would like to add we are both Tee total so I didnt do anything and I have never done anything with him on any forms of toxication. LOLOL

Love and marriage is hard work, is for me, I won't lie!

[WOMBAI]

Originally posted by masonbason

You know the strange thing, in society if a man is a player and plays around with women, they are respected but if a woman does it, shes laballed as what you said and etc etc.

Also one more thing, ask yourself why are men attracted to her? Why is marcus? Simple the looks. If you base on your attraction on a superficial thing like looks than do you not expect the women to also base their preference on looks.

Here, here - that is a discussion I have had in the past on several occasions. A lot of men judge women on looks alone - but those very same men hate it when women judge them accordingly - because most of them wouldn't meet the grade - and can't handle it!!!

[WOMBAI]

Originally posted by masonbason

You know the strange thing, in society if a man is a player and plays around with women, they are respected but if a woman does it, shes laballed as what you said and etc etc.

Also one more thing, ask yourself why are men attracted to her? Why is marcus? Simple the looks. If you base on your attraction on a superficial thing like looks than do you not expect the women to also base their preference on looks.

Here, here - that is a discussion I have had in the past on several occasions. A lot of men judge women on looks alone - but those very same men hate it when women judge them accordingly - because most of them wouldn't meet the grade - and can't handle it!!!

[masonbason]

Originally posted by COMMONSENSE

Here, here - that is a discussion I have had in the past on several occasions. A lot of men judge women on looks alone - but those very same men hate it when women judge them accordingly - because most of them wouldn't meet the grade - and can't handle it!!!

I just dont get it, i mean come on, he is not in her league simple. In the outside world, he wouldnt get a chance even to hug her unless he was her close friend.

He wants her because of her looks but what does he have to offer, here is a list possesiveness, control freak, etc etc.

I would understand if he was wealthy than the wealth would have been the deciding factor. He has neither looks nor wealth and he expects a good looking girl like noirin to accept him.

In fact his aim if there is any would be lisa if she was not a lesbo.

But you know the real reason why noirin is hated its all the women who are not good lucking who do not get the attention that she gets are p***** of cause due to an inner jealousy that they couldnt get that much attention even though they try. Thats the real reason as to why noirin is hated so much.

[GypsyGoth]

Originally posted by masonbason
If someone you didnt like kept on persisting in asking you to like them, how would you feel?

Do you think that behavior is more acceptable than lets say making up your mind as to who you like?

Also have you experienced the same as noirin is experiencing?

If you turn a friend down you can get away from the situation.

In the BB house you can't just get away.

Also if he is one of your few friends, what are your options; be alone or be friendly.

Noirin is not the type of person to be alone.

If I was in Noirin's possition when Marcus was relentlessly not taking no for an answer. I would have walked off the show (I'd like to think I would have anyway).

Marcus's behaviour was unacceptable.

[masonbason]

Originally posted by GypsyGoth

If you turn a friend down you can get away from the situation.

In the BB house you can't just get away.

Also if he is one of your few friends, what are your options; be alone or be friendly.

Noirin is not the type of person to be alone.

If I was in Noirin's possition when Marcus was relentlessly not taking no for an answer. I would have walked off the show (I'd like to think I would have anyway).

Marcus's behaviour was unacceptable.

All of them are just attention seekers, simple they all have issues, and the really smart ones are the ones who walk cause just imagine the act of just sitting doing nothing for weeks altogether. I dont mind watching the HL show, but thinking about staying with the worst group of people on these shores makes me physically sick.

[CaPPa]

Originally posted by masonbasonShes actually kissed only one person in the house. Thats not bad.

More than one. I thought that she had kissed Marcus too but she definitely kissed Siavash and Angel.