[calyman]

Originally posted by ElProximo

I found you post offensive and insulting to so many people who choose to make negative comments about gays, lesbians and bis.
You don't even treat them as valid human being worth being considered but instead invalidate their thoughts and feelings before they are even expressed by calling them 'homophobes'. As if any negative opinion must be automatically irrational and not worth consideration.
As if there must be something wrong with them from that start so there is no need to give them any credibility or their opinions any consideration.
Offensive.
As for those other people who may have an irrational fear of homosexuals - who are you to judge them?
If that is how they were born then what right do you have to silence them or criticize?

So do you also find offense in anti racists criticising racists? Or is it just a case of choosing to only hear what you want?

[MaratSafinForever]

I don't mind gay people, Charlie doesn't come across as a total ****, whereas David does, and I ****ing hate it. All this neck movement when talking and lips weird when talking, **** off you ******.

[blodyL]

Originally posted by marking
Oh, sure.
we should applaudin them for sharing this pearl.

[blodyL]

Originally posted by calyman

So do you also find offense in anti racists criticising racists? Or is it just a case of choosing to only hear what you want?

[niko]

i hate homophobic comments, but i just tend to ignore them , at the end of the day its just ignorance

[doublesix]

great post. glad to see some people against these comments.

[getstar]

love her phrase: if they cant stand love, what can I say?

nothing, i guess.

[ourgus]

When will you realise that 90% of the population is straight and that 90% of those are homophobic. Democracy anyone!!!!!!!!!!!

[gout]

peace and love, everyone.

i was shocked to see some comments in this forum as well.

[JustKaz]

Originally posted by MaratSafinForever
I don't mind gay people, Charlie doesn't come across as a total ****, whereas David does, and I ****ing hate it. All this neck movement when talking and lips weird when talking, **** off you ******.

You seem to contradict yourself here though?

[law123mus]

Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT

I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?

(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).

Don't have a hissy fit!

[HarryRag]

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...php?tid=132702

[gout]

u r sick

[BONNEIP]

Said it before i'll say it again this is the 21st century. ENOUGH of all the gay bashing, there are worse things than being gay, like imagine a whole world full of Noirins.

[getstar]

or BEAtches

[ElProximo]

Originally posted by calyman

So do you also find offense in anti racists criticising racists? Or is it just a case of choosing to only hear what you want?

Not a good comparison. The OP was hostile and calling for silence from those who would make negative comments about gays, lesbians.
Such a person is not necessarily a 'Gayist' and may well believe they are looking out for the best interests of those practicing the homosexuality.
Having said that,
I am critical of those who would disrespect and disregard and want to silence 'racists' opinions.
If we are to make a comparison then I would be critical of someone who decides
a) they somehow got appointed to determine what is 'racist',
b) they would call those giving the racist opinion 'insane' and therefore not worth giving any consideration,
c) presume the racist opinion giver is no longer a worthwhile human being.

But back to this topic:
There are many people, maybe even a majority of people in our society who, based on information and experience available to them and with consideration determine or believe that homosexual behavior is anything from an offense against nature itself, a sexual perversion to a weird or just plain lower standard of living.
Now.. you may not agree with them and that is fine but you ought to at least give them some base dignity as actual human beings and at least their opinion as valid enough to be given and looked at and by all means if you disagree then do so,
but,
don't disregard them or their view as worthless and without any consideration from the start.

[gout]

[ninjaboi]

feel the love people

[calyman]

Originally posted by ElProximo

Not a good comparison. The OP was hostile and calling for silence from those who would make negative comments about gays, lesbians.
Such a person is not necessarily a 'Gayist' and may well believe they are looking out for the best interests of those practicing the homosexuality.
Having said that,
I am critical of those who would disrespect and disregard and want to silence 'racists' opinions.
If we are to make a comparison then I would be critical of someone who decides
a) they somehow got appointed to determine what is 'racist',
b) they would call those giving the racist opinion 'insane' and therefore not worth giving any consideration,
c) presume the racist opinion giver is no longer a worthwhile human being.

But back to this topic:
There are many people, maybe even a majority of people in our society who, based on information and experience available to them and with consideration determine or believe that homosexual behavior is anything from an offense against nature itself, a sexual perversion to a weird or just plain lower standard of living.
Now.. you may not agree with them and that is fine but you ought to at least give them some base dignity as actual human beings and at least their opinion as valid enough to be given and looked at and by all means if you disagree then do so,
but,
don't disregard them or their view as worthless and without any consideration from the start.

Your prevarication is not really the issue here. You cannot on the one hand criticise a poster for being offensive, yet lecture them on the need to understand and accept others whose opinions differ from them. You are in fact the very person you are saying the original poster should not be. do you see this clearly?

As to your more relevant comments, I agree to a degree. Anyone who posits bigoted and offensive comments to others, based on their gender, sexuality, ethnic background etc., should be prepared to justify there opinions. The way to do this is by communication, not telling others to basically "shut up". On the other side of this; if you feel strongly enough about others bigotry, then of cousre, you have the right to challenge such, again, you should not be told to "shut up" and keep your opinions to yourself, for fear of not really "understanding" where the bigot is coming from.

In that regard, you have actgually performed a useful function in developing this communication, though I doubt that was your intention.

[aishaha]

Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT

I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?

(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).

So am I.

[meianove]

2009? 21st century?
Sure?
Oh, God!!!

[ifiwereu]

save the queens!



No, I am bisexual. You are confused!

[ifiwereu]

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...e=1#pid2292685

Bendzzs point of view is

[ifiwereu]

hes a coward. deleted his comment, which was:
"disgusitng. homosexuality shouldnt be encouraged".

which i replied saying to him to be careful because by now hes already got it.

Fuc*ing B*stard.

Be a man and not a chicken. Stand up for your believes!

[roddie]

he deleted it?