[Ammi]

it had to happen - maybe not on national tv - but when you persist on bullying females then one day there will be a boyfriend, brother, father etc watching in the wings and they will not be happy. I hope this makes him reflect on his attitude and behaviour before some unhappy man actually does use violence - I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

[Julesuk]

I'm female I dont think he has bullied females, he is opininated (an australian trait) but I dont think he has bullied them he obviously dislikes females that are so far up themselves that they expect all men to drop to their knees and tbh there are far too many of them around. Think this is why he has gone for Josie but bullying is a strong word I would say it is more like BB are now bullying him - I think the bloke looks in pieces at the moment

[CaudleHalbard]

In the outside world perhaps he's been bullied by females?

Only in the safety of the BB house can he turn the tables, so to speak.

A weak little man anyway. Let's face it - quite ugly too: when he smiles he looks like a piranha!

[Angus]

Originally Posted by rhino

it had to happen - maybe not on national tv - but when you persist on bullying females then one day there will be a boyfriend, brother, father etc watching in the wings and they will not be happy. I hope this makes him reflect on his attitude and behaviour before some unhappy man actually does use violence - I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

Some FMs share JJ1's delusion that nothing is ever JJ1's fault at all - it's BB's fault, or Nathan' fault, or Josie's fault, or Rachael's fault, or Ben's fault, or Corin's fault or the fact it's Thursday or the fact that someone is MAKING him angry or................(fill in the blank)

This type of man is emotionally stunted and narcissistic, and the only way he can big himself up is to exert control over and emotionally, verbally and sometimes even physically bully weaker types, usually women. I find it incredible that people are still making excuses for his vile behaviour and doing a John James by deflecting blame on everyone else but where it truly belongs, JJ1 himself.

[Beso]

oh shut up...bullying my backside.

Everyone's an equal when it comes to words.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Julesuk

I'm female I dont think he has bullied females, he is opininated (an australian trait) but I dont think he has bullied them he obviously dislikes females that are so far up themselves that they expect all men to drop to their knees and tbh there are far too many of them around. Think this is why he has gone for Josie but bullying is a strong word I would say it is more like BB are now bullying him - I think the bloke looks in pieces at the moment

A lot of arrogant and rude people hide behind the mask of 'opinionated' or 'honest' - even his biggest fan in the house, Josie said that she would be ashamed if any of her brother behaved like him - she knew he was picking on Corin and she herself called him arrogant because he cannot take on board any point of view but his own.

However if the Rachael/Nathan situation was threatening as people are saying then I do agree BB need to sort that out - We cannot condone threatening behaviour - however, John James does need to do some serious soul searching because this sort of thing is enevitable if he continues with his behaviour

[supernoodles!]

If Nathan actualy gave a **** why diddn`t he stick up for Rachael when the supposed 'bullying' was going on,what a load of bull ****.

[walter]

i don't think he means to pick on women as such. it just so happens the women that have been or are in are more annoying than the lads.

If it were me in the house it would have been the girls i would have had issues with mainly

[flamingGalah!]

Well said OP...

[housemate]

Originally Posted by angus58

Some FMs share JJ1's delusion that nothing is ever JJ1's fault at all - it's BB's fault, or Nathan' fault, or Josie's fault, or Rachael's fault, or Ben's fault, or Corin's fault or the fact it's Thursday or the fact that someone is MAKING him angry or................(fill in the blank)

This type of man is emotionally stunted and narcissistic, and the only way he can big himself up is to exert control over and emotionally, verbally and sometimes even physically bully weaker types, usually women. I find it incredible that people are still making excuses for his vile behaviour and doing a John James by deflecting blame on everyone else but where it truly belongs, JJ1 himself.

Well Said .. Exactly!!

[Julesuk]

Agree he needs to address the way he carries himself but lets not forget he is a quite immature 24 years old and still has a lot of maturing to do - I have seen and heard a lot worse in the house and also think he gets a lot of flak for sams behaviour.

[walter]

Originally Posted by Julesuk

I'm female I dont think he has bullied females, he is opininated (an australian trait) but I dont think he has bullied them he obviously dislikes females that are so far up themselves that they expect all men to drop to their knees and tbh there are far too many of them around. Think this is why he has gone for Josie but bullying is a strong word I would say it is more like BB are now bullying him - I think the bloke looks in pieces at the moment

spot on

[billy123]

little wanker needs man up if he is going to dish it out he has to expect it back sometimes without resorting to crying and running off to mummy because he wants bitty!

[fingers]

What an abject coward, he dishes out so-called "banter" (insults) to women and boasts about doing it but as soon as a male has a go at him he wants to go home to mummy.

[housemate]

Originally Posted by Julesuk

I'm female I dont think he has bullied females, he is opininated (an australian trait) but I dont think he has bullied them he obviously dislikes females that are so far up themselves that they expect all men to drop to their knees and tbh there are far too many of them around. Think this is why he has gone for Josie but bullying is a strong word I would say it is more like BB are now bullying him - I think the bloke looks in pieces at the moment

Lol ' Australians are 'opinionated' ... all of 'them' ? hmmm
John has only confronted people who he thinks are (or should be, in his own opinion) threatened by him. He has clearly shown this in some form or another over the past weeks.
He makes me cringe when he bigs it up and then unashamedly cries and threatens to walk/stay/walk/stay ... he has a larger than life ego which masks a vacant personality. Bless him though .. he has managed to make everyone feel sorry for him again so well done John.

[crocs]

Originally Posted by housemate

Lol ' Australians are 'opinionated' ... all of 'them' ? hmmm

I hadn't heard about that national trait either. John James is the only uptight Australian I've ever witnessed opening his mouth.

[Sunday]

Originally Posted by Julesuk

I'm female I dont think he has bullied females, he is opininated (an australian trait) but I dont think he has bullied them he obviously dislikes females that are so far up themselves that they expect all men to drop to their knees and tbh there are far too many of them around. Think this is why he has gone for Josie but bullying is a strong word I would say it is more like BB are now bullying him - I think the bloke looks in pieces at the moment

I agree.

And yet another boring thread slagging off JJ, cant anyone think of something original??

[Sunday]

Originally Posted by crocs

I hadn't heard about that national trait either. John James is the only uptight Australian I've ever witnessed opening his mouth.

Australians are renowned for being outspoken!!! We have family there are they all say the same.

[crocs]

Originally Posted by Sunday

Australians are renowned for being outspoken!!! We have family there are they all say the same.

For me outspoken and opinionated don't mean the same. They overlap a bit though...

[Sunday]

Originally Posted by crocs

For me outspoken and opinionated don't mean the same. They overlap a bit though...

Ok, if you think, but they are pretty much the same IMO.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Sunday

Australians are renowned for being outspoken!!! We have family there are they all say the same.

Massive generalisation.

[Talulabelle]

Originally Posted by walter

i don't think he means to pick on women as such. it just so happens the women that have been or are in are more annoying than the lads.

If it were me in the house it would have been the girls i would have had issues with mainly

It just so happens that women are a lot less likely to punch him in his snaggle-toothed gob! THAT'S why he picks on them.

He knows nathan might deck him for what he did and so, like a little coward, he apologised to him. Funny how he's not been so quick to apologise to Rachel and yet apologises to her bloke.

[sosadbbend]

Originally Posted by rhino

it had to happen - maybe not on national tv - but when you persist on bullying females then one day there will be a boyfriend, brother, father etc watching in the wings and they will not be happy. I hope this makes him reflect on his attitude and behaviour before some unhappy man actually does use violence - I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

I'm female and I don't think he bullies females. It's a level playing field in the house and all he does is state the true facts. Right from the beginning he stated his opinion of Rachael and backed it up and stuck by it. Why would he go back on this just because she is out and he is in. I would have thought less of him if he had backed down and crept round her. By the way she gave back as good as she got.

[Talulabelle]

Originally Posted by Sunday

And yet another boring thread slagging off JJ, cant anyone think of something original??

And yet another childish tantrum from john james, can't he think of something original?? (like actually going instead of simply threatening it for hours)

[Sunday]

Originally Posted by Livia

Massive generalisation.

Most nationalities are renowned for doing something or other, doesnt mean we are all the same, but if they have a reputation for something, then it gets said of all, generalisation or not.