[Jords]

Originally Posted by ukturtle

Dude all of those things you have listed are things that will change over the next few years. I used to be pretty much like that when I was younger, but as time goes on you find that you become more determined and confident with things. Your body will also change. You have pretty much described the feeling of most guys your age.

I really hope so but I cant see it right now. I find it really hard to be consistant, in April I lost 9 pounds and in May I put it all back on

And I hope so, some days I feel good about myself and find my voice and others I just wanna blend into the background (but then get down because of this).

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Jords

I really hope so but I cant see it right now. I find it really hard to be consistant, in April I lost 9 pounds and in May I put it all back on

And I hope so, some days I feel good about myself and find my voice and others I just wanna blend into the background (but then get down because of this).

Trust me, they will change with time. Heck you're half way there already knowing and admitting things that you want to change and knowing you are not 100% perfect. That makes you human. You can't change everything about yourself of course, some things you just have to live with (like I have to live with my accent) but I try to focus on the good qualities I have (which I'm happy to admit I have, whereas at your age I wouldn't have the confidence or self- esteem to have done that).

Don't wish your life away, enjoy what you have while you have it.

[Jords]

Originally Posted by ukturtle

Trust me, they will change with time. Heck you're half way there already knowing and admitting things that you want to change and knowing you are not 100% perfect. That makes you human. You can't change everything about yourself of course, some things you just have to live with (like I have to live with my accent) but I try to focus on the good qualities I have (which I'm happy to admit I have, whereas at your age I wouldn't have the confidence or self- esteem to have done that).

Don't wish your life away, enjoy what you have while you have it.

Your last sentence is so true! It annoys me that I dont always enjoy life as much as I could be doing -.-
Im literally 'starting a new leaf' every 3/4 weeks its quite silly. I wake up on Monday all ready for the new week and by Wednesday its life FML But cheers for the reply Ben, its helpful

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Jords

Your last sentence is so true! It annoys me that I dont always enjoy life as much as I could be doing -.-
Im literally 'starting a new leaf' every 3/4 weeks its quite silly. I wake up on Monday all ready for the new week and by Wednesday its life FML But cheers for the reply Ben, its helpful

Set yourself goals, one thing at a time. That helps. And no worries buddy.

[King Gizzard]

to be taller, 6''5 is in the middle of being just tall and being a giant..I wanna be a giant

Probably have smaller feet too cause it's a bastard trying to get shoes anywhere other then online

[Kerry]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

Height.

I'm only 5'4".

I so envy very tall ladies - always wanted to be at least 5'8" / 5'9". Oh for the want of a good few inches!!!! Ahem.

I'm the opposite. I love being short (5ft 2)

[Zippy]

Jords, you have a great personality and always been one of the few people I really like here. The physical stuff will sort itself out in time. Not only will your body change but you'll become more comfortable in your own skin.