[Redway]

How did she die, by the way?

[buckfast67uk]

Originally Posted by spitfire

Unbelievable. His sister died just a few days ago and he is back in the house perving over Aaron. What a heartless monster.

100% agree with you. He is a despicable, disgusting inhumane person. Really don't like him, he has a face like a turtle

[MaratSafinForever]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Thanks! I still dream about her all the time. Then i wake up and i realize that it's not real.

Awww sorry to hear about that Vanessa

Stay strong

[Jarvio]

Originally Posted by spitfire

Unbelievable. His sister died just a few days ago and he is back in the house perving over Aaron. What a heartless monster.

But people deal with grief in different ways

[Tregard]

Good lord, some of you people obviously have a gross misunderstanding of how grief works. Just because you'd suffer immediately doesn't mean everyone does. He could still be in shock or denial, it can last for days, or weeks, or months. Maybe staying in will help distract him, maybe shifting his focus is how he deals with problems, maybe his family suggested he stay in the house. You don't know how he deals with it, you can't know how he deals with it, and you should be insulting someone like that for dealing with death differently.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Tregard

Good lord, some of you people obviously have a gross misunderstanding of how grief works. Just because you'd suffer immediately doesn't mean everyone does. He could still be in shock or denial, it can last for days, or weeks, or months. Maybe staying in will help distract him, maybe shifting his focus is how he deals with problems, maybe his family suggested he stay in the house. You don't know how he deals with it, you can't know how he deals with it, and you should be insulting someone like that for dealing with death differently.

A very informed and true statement, I recall when My Grandmother died,I was in pieces completely immediately,however some of my family just carried on as if nothing had happened,as you say grief hits people in different ways and also belatedly too.
One member of my family started looking for who was having a party to go and even organised some and still went on holiday, however after a year had passed nearly,it all came to a head and they were crushed and really upset then at that time.

As you pointed out, grief can hit a long time after the event.I hope Scott is okay,he may seem like he is smiling and at ease but none of us can really know the pain he may be feeling inside as he tries to appear to be strong on the outside.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by buckfast67uk

100% agree with you. He is a despicable, disgusting inhumane person. Really don't like him, he has a face like a turtle

Originally Posted by spitfire

Unbelievable. His sister died just a few days ago and he is back in the house perving over Aaron. What a heartless monster.

So you're both saying that because people deal with grief in different ways they can be called 'heartless monsters' and 'disgusting'? Is that what you're saying? We cannot have people dealing with grief in the same way - it affects different people in different ways.

[spitfire]

Originally Posted by Redway

So you're saying that because people deal with grief in different ways they can be called 'heartless monsters'? Is that what you're saying?

Yes.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by spitfire

Yes.

That's complete nonsense. Just because you would react a certain way to something doesn't mean that everyone else should and if you're seriously passing that across then I cannot take you seriously. How dare you.

[Jords]

I dont know how he can be tagged a "heartless monster"?

As people have said we all deal with grief differently, but more importantly we do not know the circumstances. Maybe he hated his sister? Maybe she had a long-term illness and they were ready for it and her last wishes were for him to continue?

Nobody knows anything so lets not batter these harsh words about. He seems a nice guy to me and funny and Im glad hes still in there.

[spitfire]

Originally Posted by Redway

How dare you.

[spitfire]

Originally Posted by Redway

That's complete nonsense. Just because you would react a certain way to something doesn't mean that everyone else should and if you're seriously passing that across then I cannot take you seriously. How dare you.

If you don't want to hear my answer, don't ask me a question.

[Shaun]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Lets be wildly inappropriate, accusatory and judgmental, he didnt give a flying one

fixed that for you chuff.

[erinp5]

I wonder if he will leave the house for the funeral .

[spitfire]

Originally Posted by erinp5

I wonder if he will leave the house for the funeral .

Not if Aaron is walking around in his boxers.

[armand.kay]

How do you people know its his sister that died. It was not mentioned in the hls, on bots or by Scott himself.

[spitfire]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

How do you people know its his sister that died. It was not mentioned in the hls, on bots or by Scott himself.

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/playlist/...ister-s-death/

[erinp5]

Originally Posted by spitfire

Not if Aaron is walking around in his boxers.

[armand.kay]

Originally Posted by spitfire

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/playlist/...ister-s-death/

they are not official! They don't even have any sources or quotes to back it up. for all I know it could be his dog that died .

[spitfire]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

they are not official! They don't even have any sources or quotes to back it up. for all I know it could be his dog that died .

I'll have a bet with you.

[JayBlaze]

Scott is a predator

[armand.kay]

Originally Posted by spitfire

I'll have a bet with you.

No!

[spitfire]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

No!

That's because you actually know that it is his sister and you would lose the bet.

[spitfire]

Originally Posted by JayBlaze

Scott is a predator

I think he will get a prison sentence at some point in his life.

[armand.kay]

Originally Posted by spitfire

That's because you actually know that it is his sister and you would lose the bet.

It may or may not be his sister I don't know and until Scott or ch5 say it I will never know. I'm just not going to believe in something that is only stated in the daily star.