[farhad]

ever since I've been evicted from my flat i haven't got over it. I have no job and been applying and going to jobcentre. The reason I got evicted is they feel I have sublet-ted people into my flat, and hence my Housing Benefit stopped paying my rent which went to court. I haven't sublet-ted anyone, I had a friend staying over because they don't have anywhere else to go, this idiot screwed me over and applied on benefits under my address, and got me into that mess. I been trying find a way to fight for it but it isn't easy when this is concerned. I'm living with my mum and dad, but i don't get on with my dad and I feel he will tell me to leave if i don't find work as soon as possible. So have no flat, no job, and don't have enough money to even go out, I feel like a lost person, like a cub without it's mother. I feel suicidal and don't know what to do. I got issues everywhere.

[GypsyGoth]

You could speak to your doctor if you're feeling depressed.

But you're not a lost person at all

You do have a roof over your head, are you applying for jobs?

[Kizzy]

I,m sorry you feel so low..
things do seem bad, but you do have a roof over your head...
Please try to stay positive.
Do you have a jobcentre advisor who you can talk to? Explain how imperative it is you find work as soon as possible.
Speak to your doctor too if you are having bad thoughts.
Good luck to you, when we feel so down it is hard to look forward..but you have to try.

[farhad]

Originally Posted by GypsyGoth

You could speak to your doctor if you're feeling depressed.

But you're not a lost person at all

You do have a roof over your head, are you applying for jobs?

Thank you.

I have had a training but i can't get any peace where I am because my father doesn't understand i lost my place and I can't get a job in a day. I did a training course and now will have an interview with Harrods. I feel completely lonely and don't know what to do.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by farhad

ever since I've been evicted from my flat i haven't got over it. I have no job and been applying and going to jobcentre. The reason I got evicted is they feel I have sublet-ted people into my flat, and hence my Housing Benefit stopped paying my rent which went to court. I haven't subletting anyone, I had a friend staying over because they don't have anywhere else to go, this idiot screwed me over and applied on benefits under my address, and I got into that. I been trying find a way to fight for it but it isn't when this is concerned. I'm living with my mum and dad, but i don't get on with my dad and I feel he will tell me to leave if i don't find work as soon as possible. So have no flat, no job, and don't have enough money to even go out, I feel like a lost person, like a cub without it's mother. I feel suicidal and don't know what to do. I got issues everywhere.

Have you tried the Citizen's Advice Bureau

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by farhad

Thank you.

I have had a training but i can't get any peace where I am because my father doesn't understand i lost my place and I can't get a job in a day. I did a training course and now will have an interview with Harrods. I feel completely lonely and don't know what to do.

I've been there. Stay strong and you'll get through this. I hope you get the job at Harrods.

[AnnieK]

Do you get on well with your mum? Can she get your dad to lay off you a bit whilst you get sorted?

As others have said, have a chat with your doc, go to a recruitment agency as there are seasonal jobs around at the moment and try to stay positive.

Hope things get better for you soon

[farhad]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Have you tried the Citizen's Advice Bureau

I went there and they only gave me numbers for the list of solicitors which did nothing for me.

[farhad]

Originally Posted by anniek76

Do you get on well with your mum? Can she get your dad to lay off you a bit whilst you get sorted?

As others have said, have a chat with your doc, go to a recruitment agency as there are seasonal jobs around at the moment and try to stay positive.

Hope things get better for you soon

He's horrible to my mum and yes I get on with her. I don't feel comfortable when he's at home.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Aw i'm sorry to hear that, farhad.

I know hearing people say things will get better when you're at your lowest doesn't help, it can even make you angrier but you have to look at positives for now.
At least you are not out there in the cold right now, and you still have warm food.
Maybe you can speak to an adviser at connexions or something like that, a councilor that helps young adults. How about those shelters that offers young adults a place based on circumstances, forgot the official name for that organisation. Could just be shelter but I think it's something else.
Also have you kept in touch with that friend that screwed you over? what is he doing and where does he live? maybe it's time he returned the favor?

As for jobs apply everywhere man. Don't be picky. Bars, kitchen, man you know what even some cleaning jobs are alright. Some entail just cleaning up an office after hours and you could get alright money.