[Miranda123]

Is that he is really Shirley from Bolton.

He decided not to do a Luke A and tell everyone, he wanted people to love him for himself and not have them worrying about it too much

He was almost caught out when Dan accused him of padding out his costume and tried to grab a sock out of there, Dexter looked very scared because if Dan had put his hand down there he would have found a big hairy vagina!

Ok that bit is not true, but the first bit is pretty damn accurate, Ive already had a bet on it!

[Daffodil]

I have thought for a long time that Dexter's gender is questionable. Mind you I thought the same about Gina too.

[Vanessa]

Nothing wrong with it if that's the secret. It's hardly his fault.

[reece(:]

Who bloody cares, judge on him being a HM not such personal matters.

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Nothing wrong with it if that's the secret. It's hardly his fault.

Nothing wrong at all but its the sort of thing you might want to tell a girl before telling her you LOVE her

If she had responded favourably and was snogging him now, and then he told her AFTER the show, that would be VERY WRONG

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by reece(:

Who bloody cares, judge on him being a HM not such personal matters.

How can you possibly judge the HM's if your not thinking personally??

Personally I love Gina

Personally I hate Dexter, for being a liar, and not for starting life as a woman!

[Ramsay]

[DanaC]

There's something really distasteful about the tone of this speculation.

If he is formerly she, then that doesn't make him any less worthy of respect than anybody else.

Fair enough to speculate - they've all put themselves up for public speculation, so it's gonna happen - but the tone needn't be so nasty.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by DanaC

There's something really distasteful about the tone of this speculation.

If he is formerly she, then that doesn't make him any less worthy of respect than anybody else.

Fair enough to speculate - they've all put themselves up for public speculation, so it's gonna happen - but the tone needn't be so nasty.

He shouldn't have to confess anything. It's not like he committed a crime. If he wants to tell us fine. If not, it doesn't matter.

[RichardG]

Originally Posted by DanaC

There's something really distasteful about the tone of this speculation.

If he is formerly she, then that doesn't make him any less worthy of respect than anybody else.

Fair enough to speculate - they've all put themselves up for public speculation, so it's gonna happen - but the tone needn't be so nasty.

this^

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by DanaC

There's something really distasteful about the tone of this speculation.

If he is formerly she, then that doesn't make him any less worthy of respect than anybody else.

Fair enough to speculate - they've all put themselves up for public speculation, so it's gonna happen - but the tone needn't be so nasty.

There is no nasty tone to the speculation. I HATE Dexter, have done since he left the SH with Gina, but that has nothing to do with him starting life as a woman

If Dexter didnt keep going around telling everyone about his 'secret' we wouldnt be speculating at all would we?

The reason I posted this 'speculation' is because when it all comes out I want to be able to say 'told you so', thats all

Oh, and even if he was born a man, he is still a nasty little liar!

[Gusto Brunt]

How can Dexter having a sex change be a secret? That's a personal thing.

If he was trying to hide a vagina, he wouldn't have streaked round the garden.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Gusto Brunt

How can Dexter having a sex change be a secret? That's a personal thing.

It's up to him if he wants us to know or not. It won't change how much i love and support him.

[RichardG]

Originally Posted by Miranda123

There is no nasty tone to the speculation. I HATE Dexter, have done since he left the SH with Gina, but that has nothing to do with him starting life as a woman

If Dexter didnt keep going around telling everyone about his 'secret' we wouldnt be speculating at all would we?

The reason I posted this 'speculation' is because when it all comes out I want to be able to say 'told you so', thats all

Oh, and even if he was born a man, he is still a nasty little liar!

How can you hate someone you've never met purely on their actions in a game show?

[Tozzie]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

It's up to him if he wants us to know or not. It won't change how much i love and support him.

me either Vanessa

[AnnieK]

I can't see it myself....bit of barrel scraping here IMO.

[Pincho Paxton]

If Dexter had a sex change to become a man I would be able to tell.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by anniek76

I can't see it myself....bit of barrel scraping here IMO.

He did hint to a secret a few times. But who knows? it's a mystery.

His secret is more likely to be that he's not really a sugardaddy, nor does he have the wealth he claims. But most people all ready know this and have decided it's not really an issue.

[Beso]

he's more of a fiona.

[Lister of Smeg]

If Dexter were trans gender id oddly have even more respect for him as the fact he hadnt come out during or before the show would mean he didnt want it to define his time in the house he could have so easily used it to help him . But I very much doubt he is such a secret is impossible to keep from the public in that type of environment.