[Jackie]

now im going to ask everyone this question has anything you said or commented about been taken the wrong way?

[cepb]

*Sorry to bump on about threads but this should be in General Chat*

[Jackie]

im sorry i was abit mad

[cepb]

Well people do get the wrong end of this stick all the time with me. Normally at the time I don't notice that they have taken it the wrong way and then I realise when I'm thinking about the conversation later on.

[xXEtchieXx]

Yeah quite alot actually, but I find if I elaborate on what i've said, misunderstandings are usually cleared up fast without any fuss.

[Jackie]

yeah i didnt think of it in any other manner i was saying brian and charley because brians more popular so charley would go anyway im fed up explaing myself i know what i meant and thats all that matters

[MR.K!]

all the time.. when i talk it ends up comming out the wrong way and then everyone looks at me strangley lmao

[nodisharmony]

Of course they do...

That is always a case in life sadly and that is where you have to talk things out and explain yourself better.

especially when people take things the wrong way!

If people sort out things which may get interpreted wrongly, then it can all sort itself out, before it escalates much further.

"Big things, start from little things", (so the saying goes)







nodisharmony

[Jackie]

yes but some people are more senstive

[xXEtchieXx]

Originally posted by jackie46
yeah i didnt think of it in any other manner i was saying brian and charley because brians more popular so charley would go anyway Im fed up explaing myself i know what i meant and thats all that matters

Well thats ignorance, just because you know what you mean doesn't mean everyone else is going to. Doesn't hurt to explain yourself a bit does it?

[Jackie]

i didnt think it needed explaing your the one that took it another way

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by jackie46
i didnt think it needed explaing your the one that took it another way

Actually I did take it the wrong way. You say put Brian and Charley up without elaborating. Obviously I am not the only one, so if you dont care how people will take it, then fine, carry on doning what you do. If you do care, then I suggest the next time to make it more clear. End of!

[xXEtchieXx]

Originally posted by jackie46
i didnt think it needed explaing your the one that took it another way

Well it did, I could understand if Brian & Charley were the two most unpopular housemates but they're not, for me it just didn't add up. Being from London aswell I know what some of the Essex oldies can be like. But you know what it doesn't matter, you said it wasn't racially motivated so i'll just have to accept that.

[Jackie]

end of

[InTheHood]

Sometimes.

Because I am very confident, it threatens people. Also because I am very tall and very very well built, no-one ever starts on me, as i'm told I am very commanding by prescence alone.

On here, I think it's mainly young folk, so they read things how they want too and think they are always right.

Saying that, I say it like it is and if anyone ever has a problem, they just have to say it to my face. Funnily enough, no-one ever does, so I guess they will say it behind my back or become keyboard gangstas but when I find out, I make Charley seem a sweet young lady

[InTheHood]

Reading through fully, Jackie has nothing to explain to anyone.

No-one need explain themselves to anyone. You take what they say, or don't and move on.

I'm not sure of the whole story, but on an internet forum, arguments are meaningless and a waste of time.

Just move on, no-one need explain anything.

[Sentient]

Well, someone must have taken something I said the wrong way. First thread I ever made here has been pulled.

[Jackie]

oh dear: xyxwave:

[CassetteFinger]

Yeah i got a U2U from mike yesturday saying stop butting into peoples buiseness just cause i disagreed with his point of view on brian

[Amy]

Originally posted by Sentient
Well, someone must have taken something I said the wrong way. First thread I ever made here has been pulled.

I don't think it was.. maybe it was just moved to another area of the forum.. If you made a post about Charley, it would have been moved to the contestants part of the forum under Charley... I can't see why any would be pulled.. hope this helps

[Sentient]

Originally posted by Amy

I don't think it was.. maybe it was just moved to another area of the forum.. If you made a post about Charley, it would have been moved to the contestants part of the forum under Charley... I can't see why any would be pulled.. hope this helps

Ah....I didn't even think of that. Sorry, I'm new here and thought I must have said something out of line. Thanks for the info.

[Jackie]

Originally posted by jackie46
oh dear: xyxwave: