[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Paula D

I do have a daughter and no I wouldn't tell her the same thing because it doesn't apply. She's 5ft nothing and no threat to anyone.

Just because you are short doesn't make you less aggressive...just because you are a female doesn't mean you have an inability to goad..intimidate...get in people's faces...fight.
Your daughter obviously isn't made that way but unless you go around with your eyes closed..you must realise that girls can be equally as troublesome as boys.
Surely this BB is proving that point.

[pontyboi]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Yes it does. Well done you finally got my point to LT.

Why is Sue being labelled aggressive but the guy isn't? They both shouted, they're both involved in the argument? One answer, because she's a black woman.

On the face of it, neither were aggressive but only Sue was given that label despite Sam also doing behaviour that could be construed as potentially aggressive.

No I never lol

ARGH! You just contradicted yourself again you admitted what you said meant Sam was aggressive then said neither were aggressive and strangely brought Sues ethniticity into it?

Your comments are all over the place.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Paula D

Okay, lets put this another way. If you were having an argument with a child would you stand up over them?

I don't argue with children, I discuss...and yes when I'm talking to a child face to face, I bend down to talk to them.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

"attacking"

Did you miss the 'verbally' before that?

[pontyboi]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Did you miss the 'verbally' before that?

Clearly did.

[Paula D]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

I don't argue with children, I discuss...and yes when I'm talking to a child face to face, I bend down to talk to them.

So now you're finally getting my point. Someone physically taller and bigger than another shouldn't tower over them. Okay Sam hadn't gotten out of the hot tub but if he had he would be at least a head and shoulders over her.

It's intimidating in the extreme. BB pointed it out to Lotan as well, even when he claimed he was only sitting on the bed, he actually wasn't, he was standing over Chanelle.

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is size matters I suppose.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Did you miss the 'verbally' before that?

Well verbally attacking is still extreme for what it was which was two people shouting silly things at one another.

[pontyboi]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Well verbally attacking is still extreme for what it was which was two people shouting silly things at one another.

Yeah that's all it was 2 people shouting silly things about popularity and romance lol.

Somehow that's aggresion?

No it's called human nature and a stupid argument.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by pontyboi

No I never lol

ARGH! You just contradicted yourself again you admitted what you said meant Sam was aggressive then said neither were aggressive and strangely brought Sues ethniticity into it?

Your comments are all over the place.

I'll say it slowly this time since your brain's clearly lagging behind.

I was illustrating how Sam's behaviour too could be construed as "aggressive" or "out of control" by someone who wanted to make that so. In contrast to what LT is doing with Sue.

But, actually, to an impartial regular person, neither are aggressive and it's simply two people shouting at one another.

Read it twice if you need to, pet.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by pontyboi

Yeah that's all it was 2 people shouting silly things about popularity and romance lol.

Somehow that's aggresion?

No it's called human nature and a stupid argument.

Why are you telling me? Tell LT.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Why is it the guys are supposed to sit back and get insults etc thrown at them,but the women can shout in the guys faces and wag fingers but they " Soon told them" he didn't even get out the pool,for all we know he maybe wanted to confront her face to face,not throw a punch at her.

I've not watched the video, but I do agree with you that men should be allowed to defend themselves against a female Housemate if the feamle Housemate is getting verbally abusive.

However I really haven't watched the video so I don't know if Sam has gone far in defending himself.

[pontyboi]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

I'll say it slowly this time since your brain's clearly lagging behind.

I was illustrating how Sam's behaviour too could be construed as "aggressive" or "out of control" by someone who wanted to make that so. In contrast to what LT is doing with Sue.

But, actually, to an impartial regular person, neither are aggressive and it's simply two people shouting at one another.

Read it twice if you need to, pet.

You're the one saying verbally attacking someone is extreme lol don't patronise me it's not just me saying what you're saying is ridiculous.

The fact you choose to edit out "verbally" speaks volumes.

Pure baiting.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by pontyboi

You're the one saying verbally attacking someone is extreme lol don't patronise me it's not just me saying what you're saying is ridiculous.

The fact you choose to edit out "verbally" speaks volumes.

Pure baiting.

You don't even know what your point is supposed to be, do you?


Attacking, verbally attacking, it's all the same. An overreaction to what actually happened.

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Ugh. Neither were aggressive. Arguments happen. Such is life.

There would be nothing to watch if people got warnings for everything people think they should get warnings for. yet when a warning is given, BB took something too seriously. Only if its a forum fave though...otherwise warning for sneezing is perfectly acceptable.

We seem to be getting to the point in the season where all reason and sense goes out of the window

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Wrong ,the 2 most popular words on here are RACIST and HOMOPHOBIC

I'm with Jyunga on this one, aggressive in particular gets used for whenever someone raises their voice.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Or simply two people having an argument?

Everybody's raised their voice at some point.

All I saw was a few housemates shouting during an argument. There was no aggression from anyone.

What would you class physical intimidation as?....ok you dealt with it.

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by pontyboi

No I never lol

ARGH! You just contradicted yourself again you admitted what you said meant Sam was aggressive then said neither were aggressive and strangely brought Sues ethniticity into it?

Your comments are all over the place.

For once I agree with you

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

You don't even know what your point is supposed to be, do you?


Attacking, verbally attacking, it's all the same. An overreaction to what actually happened.

dogs attack and bite you. Verbal attacks, ie barking is a warning...Big big difference Pontiboi is right and im not his biggest fan, but in this case, he is right

[Ant.]

Oh, the man who thinks he's entitled to women is aggressive? Gee, I didn't see this coming.

[Ant.]

Marsh is spilling more tea than #HURRICANESUE on a Tuesday morning

[sampvt]

By the way......what did you expect sam to do. Just sit there and let her gob off and rinse him. BB are way off line with these aggressive agitators. They should be warned for intimidation, thats a form of bullying

[Ant.]

Originally Posted by sampvt

By the way......what did you expect sam to do. Just sit there and let her gob off and rinse him. BB are way off line with these aggressive agitators. They should be warned for intimidation, thats a form of bullying

If he gets upset at the fact she points out his showmance and tries to approach her to do god knows (hit her? stare her down?) what that's his problem. Should Sam be warned for trying to intimidate Sue?

[Crimson Dynamo]

did someone call?

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by parmnion

What would you class physical intimidation as?....ok you dealt with it.

What?

I feel you're trying to ask me a question. Have another go.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by sampvt

dogs attack and bite you. Verbal attacks, ie barking is a warning...Big big difference Pontiboi is right and im not his biggest fan, but in this case, he is right

He's not right.

I'll say it again. Attack or verbal attack did not occur in that video.

Is that clear enough or shall I provide sign language?