[Tanser_Man]

Originally posted by Ruth
Tanser_Man, you say that people have different views and perceptions of the housemates - obviously that's right, or there would be no debates between fans and detractors of any housemates. However, to say that if someone calls someone else a bully, they themselves are bullying is totally illogical. If someone IS a bully, are you honestly saying that we shouldn't call them that, because that turns us into bullies? To be honest, I don't believe that that can be what you're saying, but it's certainly the way it comes across.

No... im looking at it from his perspective.

Even though you maybe think he's a bully, he more then likely thinks he isn't a bully.

So when people force something onto you which is untrue, its like someone saying you have a big nose but under different circumstances, in this case him being called names and being perceived as something he more then likely is not.

I'm not saying everything he has done is correct and i am not saying people who accuse people, to the extent, are bullys, But what i am saying is that when you judge someone and make false comments without rightly perceiving this person and thinking maybe he was having a joke... or maybe yes he was playing a prank and balancing out the maybe's instead of just rushing in, like alot of people are doing, then you might understand the real Maxwell.

I may have lost a few people but i know what im going on about.