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I had a friend when I lived in Germany who fell into the latter category. Really nice girl, but she was so timid and afraid to have an opinion on ANYTHING that it got a bit frustrating. We're talking along the lines of "what do you want to order?" "oh I don't mind, just whatever everyone else is having!" - this is your dinner we're talking about. This is your choice to make. You can't crowd please all the time!