[Mrluvaluva]

Originally posted by Nicola
I come on most days and do a couple of posts, I'm surprised I'm not on anyone's lists. I've got lots of popular friends and sometimes can't keep up with them or be online all the time due to my family commitments and having to be there for the little one.

Please don't think I'm taking it personally that I'm not on people's lists. I admit it's of my own doing because I'm a bit shy and don't always join in discussions like all my friends do because I sometimes feel like what I say doesn't matter and other people's posts are always more interesting, hence the reasons they get noticed and I don't. I also need encouraging to join in and initiate conversations a lot - a couple of members on here have been down this avenue with me on MSN and I'm getting the impression people find me unfriendly because of the way I am.

Although we have never really conversed, I find you to be very friendly on here.