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Honestly I’m not convinced things would be all that different day to day for me. Far less stressful because of eradicating any money stuff. But my day to day I feel like would be the same thing in a bigger/nicer house . I’d also have cleaners because I hate housework. We already have a gardener .

Biggest difference would be that my youngest who is likely to need lifelong care would be set for life - which is one of my biggest long term worries (what happens to her when we’re old/dead).