[Matt10k]

Darnell mentioned he wanted to be the type of leader that doesn’t argue and lets people do what they want- Mario accused him of not letting people play what they wanted and it hit a nerve.

I presume that’s what he meant by ‘you don’t know the problems I have’. To be honest though, he could have meant anything by it, you just presumed he was playing the victim card.

I find he has a tendency to waffle- probably didn’t even mean it to sound like that. In my opinion that isn’t ‘playing’ the victim card. It’s not like he’s actively playing that angle, so I disagree.

And I haven’t once heard him try to get sympathy that way. He seems to keep it bottled up. To be honest, I wouldn’t blame him for mentioning it occasionally, he probably has had a difficult life. That’s just my take on things…