[supernoodles!]

Well as some of you know about 2 and a half months ago I broke up with my bf of almost 4 years.Were still really close,see each other,talk every day etc and today I found out his dad passed away this morning.It was so sudden and totally unexpected,Im actually devasted.My ex rang me to tell me this morning and he was in complete hysterics,I couldn`t even make out what he was saying.Ive been asking some close friends what I should say and do,I feel so awkward and frustrated because I can`t do what I would have done if I was still his gf and Im so worried about saying the wrong thing,Ive never lost anyone before,I`ve still got both sets of grandparents so I can`t even begin to imagine to think what it must be like to loose your dad.
Ive explained that I am here 24/7 but I just feel like I`m not doing enough,but I don`t know,I don`t want to be irritating constantly texting and stuff,so erm yeah what would you lot suggest
thanks