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Was Paul right to call Josh deceitful, when it comes to Josh's Sexuality?

Paul often spoke about issues, in which he had no idea what he was talking about! He unintentionally really pi**ed off when he accused Josh of being deceitful when it comes to his sexuality. I forgot about this until it came up in another post. I don't particularly like or dislike Josh it has to be said, but when Paul accused him of being deceitful about his sexuality, I thought:

Why do you care about his sexuality? It is irrelevant,
Who are we to judge if he is gay, straight or bi?
Only he knows the answer and the fact that he slept with a woman does not matter.

My honest PERSONAL opinion is every person in the world is born bi-sexual, but society puts pressure on us to behave a certain way, and 'conform'. A lot of people feel you have to be straight or gay. Why label people? Do we not fancy individuals and not a gender?

Do you realise the stick gay men give men who are bi-sexual, they say they are in denial. Bi-sexual people are not accepted in general by both straight and gay people.

I consider myself bi-sexual (although I don't like to label myself) yet I often tell gay people that I am gay, because I often get hassle for being bi-sexual. And most straight people think I am straight, apart from close friends and close family, So that would put me in the same category of Josh

Does that make me deceitful? Or just some one who wants an easy life.

I don't want to sound ars*y, but technically speaking Josh may have been deceitful, but in life were people have prejudices, you have to be deceitful sometimes. If I am honest I believe everyone is bi-sexual including Josh. But I would imagine he goes out on the 'gay scene' a lot, so if he goes on national TV and says I am bi-sexual he would have got a lot of stick for it.

Even the 'gay' media frowns upon bi-sexuals to a certain degree. I seem to remember Adele remarking on this too. A lot of people think you have to be one or another. I personally like 'individuals' some happen to be men some women. I don't broadcast everywhere I am bi-sexual, why do people need to know if Paul had spoke to me like that I would have just walked away.

I don't dislike Paul, but he just has no idea how complex and difficult it was for Josh in there. You can't speak frankly about issues like that in the BB house.

Paul continuously would talk about things in which he didn't understand, and that's why some people perceive him as thick, and why he got so many nominations. He never did this intentionally, which is why I don't dislike him.