[Vicky.]

Originally posted by BB22

I kind of agree, it is common courtesy to make some return. However, I just don't think it is appropriate to make such a blunt demand. If she had asked me for the bloody frosties I personally would have taken into account her earlier behaviour and given them to her, But if I would prefer to pay her back in some other way, perhaps in kind with tobacco, I would feel it within my rights to say so and I would feel that it was inappropriate of her to keep pressing the issue and definitely inappropriate to make a fuss about it with other people.

At the same time though, it is Lisa we are talking about...can you imagine her offering anything back...rather than just expecting to take what she wants? Maybe bea felt a nudge in the right direction was needed...either way she was way too blunt IMO. And if she felt she should be paid back (which is quite right, especially as there is normally not much tobacco in the first place) she should have pulled her aside and said something quietly...instead of infront of people. Though it was lisas reaction that turned it into an issue.