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The present - gate vids
Aaron once again displays his manipulative and quite atrocious behaviour. Instead of taking responsibility for his own actions, he makes others feel guilty to make himself feel better. Even when the person (Jay) explains their actions reasonably and calmly, Aaron insists that his version is the right one and refuses to even consider any point of view but his own. He could have said, at the very least, ‘well it looked that way to me, but maybe I was wrong and thanks for explaining’. Instead, he continues with the cold, holier than thou treatment.
He has successfully shifted the guilt on to Jay (who is so straight forward he falls for it) who then apologizes to AARON - not for buying the presents - BUT FOR MAKING AARON FEEL BAD. Once again, Aaron has made a situation ALL ABOUT HIM. He can’t even accept the apology gracefully. He reluctantly murmurs ‘okay’ and doesn’t give anything back in the way of warmth. It wouldn’t even occur to him that HE had made Jay feel bad, and Alex, Tom and Louise into the bargain. All that matters is how bad HE feels.
I'm beginning to pity him. He has problems.
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