[Z]

Originally Posted by MachoPoodle

But that's kind of the point. I don't want to have sex with 5 people in one night, and personally I'm quite reserved and not likely to have casual sex as it's not my thing. But that is my choice, and I don't believe in judging people just because they don't have the same personal attitude towards it or because I don't understand why/how anyone would/could so called "sleep around". Just like I don't think anyone should judge me because of my choice, whether they understand it or not. Why does it have to make sense to anyone else than those involved?

I think for me it's not about judging people because they're doing something I wouldn't, rather it feels wrong to hear about people doing that because I think it goes against nature to have more than one sexual partner in a night... if that makes sense? I wouldn't judge someone for having sex five times in a night with one person; it's the requiring multiple different partners bit that gets me, that doesn't strike me as empowering, that comes across as a self esteem issue to me. Empowering would be having sex as often as you like with someone who has your sex drive; not using five people to fulfill your sexual appetite. Am I making any sense? I don't know... I don't like to think I'm being judgmental but maybe I am...