[lostalex]

I always feel like a loser when i wait for the crosswalk signals to change, but someone else crosses the street. Then i think, well should i cross too? or should i stand my ground and follow the rules. It's very confusing for me and damaging for my self esteem!

but i feel like a badass when i cross the street and other people are waiting for the signals to change.

it's very confusing, because i've been on both sides of the situation.