[jaxie]

I thought I was going to like Dee but she is coming across to me as just as intolerant of Gary as the rest of the ego maniacs. If you actually listen to him in his disagreements with other housemates he isn't saying anything offensive they just take it the wrong way and don't listen to him. They completely dismiss him if he tries to explain his spirituality. Here's the thing during the religious thing with Hadley in the garden dee was crossing herself like a catholic, how would she like to have her belief rubbished with the attitude she just gave Gary?

The other problem I have is this, my OH and I have had very hard up times, specially in this recession that feels like it will never end even though they say its over, but we have always paid our way and found work. OH has had several redundancies in recent years and each time new job less pay. Electricity and gas prics are so high these days we can barely afford to heat the house in winter. Dee doesn't seem unintelligent or particularly physically unfit so I don't see the excuse for living off the state. I find it hard to sympathise.