[Liam-]

Originally Posted by sassysocks

Maybe, but it is very irritating to hear people bestowing qualities on James he clearly doesn't have. Whether insecure or simply downwright nasty, he has behaved pretty appaullingly so far, so how can anyone justify it. Considering him 'hot' doesn't cut it.

Having the guts to admit they were shallow in their judgments would be preferable to reining down all such virtuous qualities on this sad and bitter man who is getting too old to dance, and is now hoping to carve out a career for himself as a presenter or such like. He needs a personality and people skills for that.

Difference being, it's because you don't like him that you can't see those qualities, whereas people who do like him can clearly see them in him, i am not shallow, i like James because of everything he is; honest, upfront, witty, funny, kind hearted, loving, loyal and respectful, it's just an added bonus that he is immensely attractive,