[Bells]

Exactly, and I only feel people who wish to try and put themselves in those shoes can fully understand that. I'd like people who have made comments such as 'just leave' to respond to my previous post.


Previous post attached below:

A lot of Asians who call themselves terms like that do it to ease the pain and humiliation they feel when a person of a difference race calls them it. And they say it amongst themselves in a way so that it's almost ridiculing people who call them it; making themselves feel comfortable when they're together, in other words. It does not mean they like the term. Well, normal ones don't.

So I don't understand why anyone should say it to them and make them feel hurt/confused in the first place. Most of the Asian teenagers you'll see these days suffer from personality complexes - they're confused, so they try and put on a sort of 'hard' image so they don't get picked on, and act like it doesn't bother them... and it's developed. I know that for a fact.

People should think very carefully before they speak for others.