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I think it's a bit like when young girls get let loose on make up for the first time, first bra, whatever... most tend to go a bit wild, mad and then grow up very quickly and look back and cringe once they've found their style and what looks good on them and what doesn't - except when it's mature men who are cross dressing after presumably years of hiding a desire to do so or doing it in secret for years, they've got absolutely no perception of what they look like to other people and as such are acting like young teenage girls without the help of adults and peers to help them not look stupid.