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Originally Posted by Yaki da

No, what she is highlighting is how awkward it could be because of the clash of cultures between him and her friends and family. She is certainly not saying she's ashamed of him. Just that things she obviously doesn't mind in him, might be something her friends and family may be disapproving of and that this could create a rather awkward situation that she would want to avoid.



You obviously care about how your family would relate to this person. Especially if you're very close to them. But the idea that anyone truly TRULY likes someone after having spent all of 4 or 5 days in total with them is absurd anyway. She's just recognising the reality of the situation, expressing what her doubts and fears would be, and playing it carefully. Somehow you've made her out to be this two faced bitch whose leading him on but who would be ashamed of him.

let's at least be fair to a person when discussing what they've said and not use it to paint some monstrous caricature of her.

she is what she is ..you see her your way I see her mine

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