[Garfie]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

So had Jason been 'strong enough' and on the 6th occassion told her to just " **** off and leave me alone...I don't want you in my life anymore"....you think that would make him a stronger person and in control???
Jason, by keeping it together and keeping his dignity and behaving like a gent he took complete control and showed an amazing strength of character.
We all clearly saw what a bunny boiler Charlie was...we could all see how her presence suppressed Jason...you must be blind if you didn't see it. He s right to blame Charlie for his change of behaviour....we saw it..and he knows it and he admits it. What's wrong with that?

People can 'see' the same thing but perceptions can be different- to suggest that others 'must be blind' if they don't perceive things in the same way as you do is unfair. It implies that only your opinion can be right, which is not the case, and it is also belittling of other forum members as it implies there is something wrong with them if their view differs from yours.

Too much needless insulting of others from too many people on here just because they have a less positive view of Jason, which is ironic when the forum is designed to allow people to discuss different views! Wouldn't be much of a discussion if everyone mindlessly agreed with one point of view!