[Ammi]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

It's real life it happens, there's plenty of men out there that like the idea of being a dad but they can't actually step up to the responsibility . Ben doesn't have the intellect or maturity to commit to fatherhood , but on the other side sometimes people like him are better dads than they are husbands and boyfriends . But i won't hold my breath with Ben but who knows .

...he just loves the idea of love, I think...probably with Roxanne also...it’s a bit heartbreaking in a way..that both just can’t enjoy being themselves and loving who they are.....

[Christmas Lights]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...he just loves the idea of love, I think...probably with Roxanne also...it’s a bit heartbreaking in a way..that both just can’t enjoy being themselves and loving who they are.....

There's just something very false about them, and they seem to live in their own world. I can't take to either of them .

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

There's just something very false about them, and they seem to live in their own world. I can't take to either of them .

..yeah your feelings are completely understandable, GoldHeart...I just overthink things as well I think...I tend to be quite interested in ‘false’, just because there are insecurities that make people ‘false’ you know...how they hide their insecurities behind false...it’s why I loved the old BB so much, that 24 hour thing when we saw so much of people and it as hard to ‘hide’...I cling on because I’m probably addicted now and it’s hard to overcome addictions...but the new format of manipulated highlights etc always makes me very frustrated in how little of the housemate’s characters we see to be able to form judgements...I need help to free myself and move on from BB...as it is now...