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Originally Posted by Cherie
Do you think that is where you are going a bit astray though, sexual attraction is only part of the deal...you need to get on in your every day and friendships can grow into partnerships just like mad sexual attraction can fizzle out, you need to stop looking at relations as purely sexual maybe  10 years in you won’t be having the same mad sex you did when you first got together and if you hate their personality then it literally won’t last, that’s my view any way
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Yeah and I see what you're saying. Maybe not sexual attraction then but physical attraction. There has to be something there initially regardless of personality. I think so anyway. Everything else will come after that and the personality will keep the person
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Originally Posted by Ammi
….while you haven’t met that uncompromising ‘perfect’ person atm, Thomas…?…I love how you seem to be always working on your own ‘perfection’ …and having fun as well …enjoy each day as it happens and enjoy being you, I think that you do that….  …
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Yeah I'm not looking for perfect.....there is no such thing... When I say compromise, I mean, I just won't date someone I don't find attractive and those that are interested just aren't attractive to me.
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Originally Posted by Ammi
…or join a running club…  …mums, eh…  …
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Lol. She's suggesting now that I buy an MG and join a car club